How many people here have enemies?

[Vantagepoint34]

Funny I was having this conversation with a mate last night who s a lot smarter than me and a gun program manager. Turns out we were reading the same books and agreed on what has changed in IT projects.

1. The agile movement has brought the social media generation to power. Impact being positional authority is diminished and the importance of social/organic authority increased.

2. In many large corporates a combination of 3rd wave feminism and the female powerbase in HR has replaced the boys club with the sisterhood

3. Mass immigration from u know where has saturated the IT job market leading to more resource contention and turned up the political heat. We re a small market but the same influence is playing out in the US.

Note: projects r always going to be more political than operations because ops needs stability - the core business has to run.

It's a work in progress so I m a bit hesitant to outline my thinking here as some chest thumping idiot will immediately attack.

PM me if your interested in discussing

One more thing. A very important judge died not too long ago. Im starting to wonder if it's the main judge running australia atm..... I'm not traveling right now. You know there is this guy named Connor Kennedy. Could be useful to help out. Haha.

 

[Spaz]

@Spaz your just another pale copy of poonking i.e. lint that accumulates in the arse crack of the forum.

Nobody ever proved Meyers Briggs worked. And you won't be able to provide any real evidence that your fake 'system' works.

Of course you will try the usual school boy debating tricks of the internet fake alpha but you won't produce any proof just hot air.

Who is Meyers Briggs? Don't know him and don't care abt him.

That's Spaz's system.

Since its mine, I have absolute authority to say that u r an expressive passive man.

You can deny it all you want, but for me to change my mind, you're gotta prove it.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

None,. AFAIK.

 

[corrector]

I'd say most people are looking for weaknesses, and are there to take rather than to give, and will only help you when you don't actually need their help. If you let your guard down they will take advantage of you, that's why you need to always have your head on and some street smarts. There are no good people out there. Some relatives are enemies, but I guess not on the level of the Red Sparrow movie and the dynamics there, lol!

 

[touma.akagi]

I used to have enemies, but now all I really have are people who don't matter.

What I mean by that is, people who don't like me aren't my "enemies," so much as they are "people who complain about me with no intention of ever resolving whatever issues they have and thereby do not deserve my attention."

 

[ubercat]

As expected insults and the usual weak attempt to get people justifying themselves. Case closed. The emperor has no clothes.

 

[BeExcellent]

I have haters. I don’t think I’ve got real enemies.

I embrace the haters. Those are people who think I’m better than them in some way. They are people trying to tell me what I am doing is impossible...whilst I am doing it in spite of their limiting belief...

So I’m disproving their belief system. People find that disruptive if they are too invested in a particular belief system.

I do not let static ideas limit me. It is best to be curious, observational, flexible and fluid in many things. My values are solid. My beliefs more fluid and changeable as I gain knowledge...learning and unlearning things as I go.

 

[sosousage]

I'd say most people are looking for weaknesses, and are there to take rather than to give, and will only help you when you don't actually need their help. If you let your guard down they will take advantage of you, that's why you need to always have your head on and some street smarts. There are no good people out there. Some relatives are enemies, but I guess not on the level of the Red Sparrow movie and the dynamics there, lol!

Why r they looking for weaknesses tho? I see this often

 

[MountainSlide]

The amount of haters that you have is an indication of your level of success