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Just curious about what your personal standards are.

For me two flakes is a straight up NEXT

Language such as.. maybe, soon, will see, might, busy right now, maybe later etc.. I simply class this as low interest & don't bother to pursue any further.

I find singles moms are the worst for this kinda thing
Haha good question, for us once if she does not offer an alternative time.

If she does, and flakes out again she is OUT! So twice in that instance. But most times, women will flake and simply say "sorry" so we NEXT!

Keep your woman standards HIGH gentlemen. Do not let things slide, and set the correct frame for women. You are the prize. Women are used to guys letting these things slide and putting them on a pedestal so they think they can get away with disrespecting you. DO NOT LET THEM DISRESPECT YOU, especially your time. That is your most valuable asset.


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manfrombelow

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My personal rule:

1/ If she flakes but willingly proposes an alternative date & time with an apology, I'll let it slide aka give her the chance to make it up to me, to see where things go.

2/ If she flakes without even trying to propose an alternative date & time? IMMEDIATE NEXT.
 

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One. If she doesn't make an effort to re-schedule
Ranger Mike nails it again. Key word here is EFFORT on her part.

Flake and no counter offer? Next. Dont even waste your time following up with her. Do not pursue, chase, etc. She either hits you up making new plans or be dust in the wind.

If she counter offers and then something again comes up- Next.

If she counter offers and doesnt really stay in contact afterwards- flake on her @ss when the time comes. Tell her "Sorry, something came up" when she texts you from the venue after you dont show up.

Stop accepting sh!tty behavior from these women.
 

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One.
If she doesn´t (or anyone for that sake) have respect for my time then I have no respect for that person either.

Afterall the most valuble and precious commodity we humans "have" is time. We can never get lost time back when someone waste it for us.
I hate it too when people come late for the same reason. Many chicks doesn´t seem to understand the concept of time which sort of a issue imo.
My 5 cents tho.
 

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Just curious about what your personal standards are.

For me two flakes is a straight up NEXT

Language such as.. maybe, soon, will see, might, busy right now, maybe later etc.. I simply class this as low interest & don't bother to pursue any further.

I find singles moms are the worst for this kinda thing
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Not recommending that. It's just my personal choice. My time is extremely valuable.
 

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Just curious about what your personal standards are.

For me two flakes is a straight up NEXT

Language such as.. maybe, soon, will see, might, busy right now, maybe later etc.. I simply class this as low interest & don't bother to pursue any further.

I find singles moms are the worst for this kinda thing
Agree, twice then delete or sometimes only once !
 

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One strike and she is out, if she is genuinely interested then she would make the time for you.
So they tell you 'no' by just not showing up and hope you get the hint.
Most guys don't get the hint and continue chasing.

On the other hand, if she's a plate and we made plans and she did not show up, I will call her. Because for all I know she might got into car accident on her way to see me. From there it all depends on circumstances
Even if it's a girlfriend or a male friend, I wouldn't tolerate a flake. When i make plans I stick to it and always follow through. I've cut out "friends" who I had known for years because they flaked on meetups with terrible excuses like "im busy" or "im sick"
 
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