Senior Don Juan
- Jun 22, 2023
- Reaction score
I noticed my lay count increases as well when im in a stage in my life when I am drinking too. My lay count increases even more when I am drinking and then also working out. I think the attitude of not caring along with having some muscles turns on women alot.As a shy guy with massive unrelenting confidence when I drink I can give you an answer from both sides. The shy guy who meets girls through circumstance has a limited field and view and passes opportunity when it arises. I can safely say my sober self has never once got laid despite being surrounded by woman (relationships dont count). Dont take the risk, dont get the reward type thing.
Now my drunk self who honestly could give a F and does what ever he wants, that guy has got me over probably 70+ body count. Ive seen girls both be intimidated by my confidence and also impressed by it so theoretically the intimided ones would be better suited to a guy whos more in the middle, the problem is his lack of effort due to the fear of rejection.
Ive been seeing a psychologist about merging the two sides of my game, Id love to be more like my drunken self sober, if I could pull that off Im sure my game would go up 50%.