Maybe. It could also be that she's a cheating hoe. You could be doing everything right and some women will still cheat on you just for the thrill of having new c0ck.Originally posted by prosemont:
If that happens, it's because I wasn't doing my job.
I don't cheat if I'm in a LTR and expect no less of my woman; the girl Dutch is talking about here is a sorry ass, cowardly hoe, if she's 'unhappy' in her LTR she should call it quits, or else the boyfriend needs to wake up & get his shyt together. I dunno, somethings' gotta change there.
Women slip into this all too convenient (for them) zone where they have security in a LTR from one man, but hey, they need another man for good sex, and another because he's a good provider, and another because he's got a nice house, and another because he's influential and can do her favors.......it never ends.
Wouldn't it save everybody alot of heartache & trouble if they waited pateintly for one man that met most if not all of their criteria?
BTW, I'm not saying guys have no blame.
IMO if she wants to be 'stolen' she will let herself, not because of said mans' persuasivness, rather because of her discontent with her current 'relationship'.
Just my thoughts.
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