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How Do I Proceed With This Chick?

soulforge

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What's your opinion on the current situation guys?

Two weeks ago, me and this girl met up after work in one of our breakout area on 4th floor.. Nobody goes up there at all.

We had about 20mins up there together.. In that time she had a good play with my c0ck and I had just groped her ass and played with her nipples, fingered her.

She said she might be able to get a sitter on Saturday night and then come to my house for sex.. But she stated it's not for definite, depends if she can get a sitter.

I suggest that if she can't get a sitter, then how about weekend after I come to your house for a bang.. That resolves the child care issue. She sounded a little hesitant but agreed.

We spoke by text on Friday night, just a little sexting, but I kept it short and brief.

This girl has already cancelled twice due to no child care, so I actually had no hope of us getting together on that particular Saturday.

Come late Saturday night, I get a text off her claiming that she wasn't able to get her son to go sleep at her dad's.

I had actually forgotten about the date and one hour later I replied back.. Yeh that's not a problem

She messaged back.. Are you upto anything fun tonight?


Me - Just with my two mates watching big UFC fight.

Her - Enjoy your night, Speak later

Me - Speak later

4 days go by and I don't text her and she doesn't contact me.

On the 5th day I sent her this funny meme.. And she messaged me back with

Her - That was hilarious haha did you figure it out immediately?

I messaged her back 3 hours later, as I was busy and had other chit to do..

Me - Yes straight away, I'm pretty smart like that.

Her - Yes me too

And that's it... It's been 5 days since that conversation and I haven't heard shiit from her and I haven't messaged her either.

I am convinced there is some power play going on.. She is happy and willing to chat, flirt and sext, but my feeling is, she expecting me to make 90% of the effort and be the one reaching out to her.

I don't intend to reach out for shyte now.. She isn't even that special.

It's just odd how we both dropped communication.. I'm working on another girl now, but I have a gut feeling she will make contact sometime soon.

I just wanted your thoughts.. Only 2-3 weeks ago I was fingering this sloot and now dead silence.
 
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Update.. I think applying a little patients did actually pay off.


I arranged to meet her again after work at the 5th floor of our work building.

It's a completely deserted area, no offices or cameras or staff or cleaners or security.

Started off with some groping, then my hand ended up inside her nickers fingering her.. This massively turned her on and got her nice and wet.

Then she dropped to her knees and gave me a long sloppy BJ and handjob.. We didn't go full sex, as I didn't have much time.

She seems keen on meeting me again, so I reckon next meet I aim to bang her which can easily happen now.

Some of you guys are too quick to rule off a chick with, oh she isn't interested or attracted to you.

A little patience can workout, especially when you have a couple of girls in rotation.
 

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She's prolly more turned on by the thought of being fingered in your office building, than actual 'boring' sex at home. Girls live in the imagination and you should have taken advantage of that by fueling that fire with some strategic words.
I don't like this "As I didn't have much time"-excuse. Make more time and stop overanalyzing this single mom.
Just enjoy her for the opportunities that present themselves, and don't put ANY effort into her (which means not sending silly memes etc.). The ball has been in her court for a good while now.
 

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She may be hot but there is alwsys a guy tired of smashing her
So wait on.. A hot girl is willing to meet you after work a couple of times a week and gets down on her knees, gives you a long sloppy blow job.. And your having to put minimal effort in, ie taking her out on dates or even texting her.

You would just simply walk away from that? Are you sure about that.
 

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She's prolly more turned on by the thought of being fingered in your office building, than actual 'boring' sex at home. Girls live in the imagination and you should have taken advantage of that by fueling that fire with some strategic words.
I don't like this "As I didn't have much time"-excuse. Make more time and stop overanalyzing this single mom.
Just enjoy her for the opportunities that present themselves, and don't put ANY effort into her (which means not sending silly memes etc.). The ball has been in her court for a good while now.

Well dude this girl is willing to suck me off a couple of times a week after work, with me having to put in minimal effort other than texting her a day and time to meet.

Yes it's not gone to full sex yet.. However you are right, aslong as I don't persue much or send her lots of text or memes etc, it's worth keeping her around.

I get bjs off her regular and if it looks like we are not able to get down with full sex later down the line, I will just drop her.

Right now just enjoying the bjs
 

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then my hand ended up inside her nickers fingering her.. This massively turned her on and got her nice and wet.

Then she dropped to her knees and gave me a long sloppy BJ and handjob.. We didn't go full sex, as I didn't have much time.
Maybe next time after fingering her and getting her wet, just stick it in and forego the BJ. That's when you'll know where you stand with her.
 

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So wait on.. A hot girl is willing to meet you after work a couple of times a week and gets down on her knees, gives you a long sloppy blow job.. And your having to put minimal effort in, ie taking her out on dates or even texting her.

You would just simply walk away from that? Are you sure about that.
Yes, I have turned down many attractive girls and people would tell me what is wrong with you. There is more to life than banging multiple girls. I am focused on my purpose and I am looking for something more long term, if I don't think she is good for me long term I do not waste my time with her.
 

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Maybe next time after fingering her and getting her wet, just stick it in and forego the BJ. That's when you'll know where you stand with her.
I think that's the way forward.. I think it's just a matter of time till her legs open up.. In the mean time I can just enjoy the blow jobs
 

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Update guys.

This Monday gone, I asked her to meet me after work for this coming Friday on floor 5 where it is total privacy. She agreed and understands that it will be all about sex.

The last meet we had a week ago, she let me finger her and the. she gave me a long sloppy blow job.

My intention on Friday is to escalate to fuking her good.. It may happen or may not, but a.blow job is certain haha.

Anyhow I want your opinion on her interest level?

She meets me when I ask her to. However she doesn't text me much at all.. And I don't text her much either.

I simply arrange a day to meet, and in between we don't talk much.

I don't see why I should make an effort to text her if she doesn't make any either.

My impression is also that this chick gets bored easily if you are always in touch with her.

What's the best method to deal with her?

01. Should I be the one who is arranging all the sex meets? So far I have arranged all of them.

My feeling is, the moment I stop asking her to meet, the whole thing will fizzle out, because of her lack of effort.

I only see this girl as some fun, so I don't see the harm in arranging the meet ups.

In-between the sex meets, should I refrain from sexting and idle text chat?
 

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Update guys.

This Monday gone, I asked her to meet me after work for this coming Friday on floor 5 where it is total privacy. She agreed and understands that it will be all about sex.

The last meet we had a week ago, she let me finger her and the. she gave me a long sloppy blow job.

My intention on Friday is to escalate to fuking her good.. It may happen or may not, but a.blow job is certain haha.

Anyhow I want your opinion on her interest level?

She meets me when I ask her to. However she doesn't text me much at all.. And I don't text her much either.

I simply arrange a day to meet, and in between we don't talk much.

I don't see why I should make an effort to text her if she doesn't make any either.

My impression is also that this chick gets bored easily if you are always in touch with her.

What's the best method to deal with her?

01. Should I be the one who is arranging all the sex meets? So far I have arranged all of them.

My feeling is, the moment I stop asking her to meet, the whole thing will fizzle out, because of her lack of effort.

I only see this girl as some fun, so I don't see the harm in arranging the meet ups.

In-between the sex meets, should I refrain from sexting and idle text chat?
This is a risky game to be playing at your place of employment but I see you are pretty obsessed with this woman so I guess go for it...

At least you got some BJs out of it...definitely not something I would consider since it is putting your job at risk and over what? Some skank who can't figure out a way to get free for an hour outside of work?

I think you need to be working on other options bro...you are assuming way too much risk for way too little reward.
 

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This is a risky game to be playing at your place of employment but I see you are pretty obsessed with this woman so I guess go for it...

At least you got some BJs out of it...definitely not something I would consider since it is putting your job at risk and over what? Some skank who can't figure out a way to get free for an hour outside of work?

I think you need to be working on other options bro...you are assuming way too much risk for way too little reward.
Dude how does this put my job at risk.. We are completely in two different parts of the company.

Our paths don't even pass at work.. Also do you know how much office based fukin is going on at our work place? Loads.. Everyone is at it, including management.

All that being said, I am in agreement that work related relationships are generally a bad idea.

This is why.. Once I have smashed her, I will just leave it alone and focus on another chick.
 

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Dude how does this put my job at risk.. We are completely in two different parts of the company.

Our paths don't even pass at work.. Also do you know how much office based fukin is going on at our work place? Loads.. Everyone is at it, including management.
Last time I checked fvcking someone at work would get you fired if caught...and no offense I would probably be looking for a new place to work if that was the case...definitely not somewhere professional.
 

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She meets me when I ask her to.
You have compliance, this is all you need. You don't want another textbuddy, do you?
You haven't had sex yet, women usually start to invest more after sex.
Tbh, you're asking the wrong questions. It's not about her, it's about you.
 

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You have compliance, this is all you need. You don't want another textbuddy, do you?
You haven't had sex yet, women usually start to invest more after sex.
Tbh, you're asking the wrong questions. It's not about her, it's about you.
Apparently he has in the past a few times, just not this go round.
 

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she doesn't text me much at all..

we don't talk much.

she doesn't make any either.

chick gets bored easily if you are always in touch with her.
It sounds like you're her b1tch or she's plating you. Do you think she's thinking this much about you? So far you've thought way too much about this.

Maybe be like a girl and have a different girl for each purpose like girls do with guys. Have your coworker for bj's and possible sex and look for another girl to give you attention.
 

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Apparently he has in the past a few times, just not this go round.
I have banged her before and that was around 10-12 months ago after a work party.

Ideally all I want from this chick is BJ or a fuk once a week or a fortnight.. Simply a plate.

However my question is, is it OK for me to be the one mostly arranging the sex meets?

In-between the sex I don't give a fuk if we text each other or not. Aslong she is giving that azz up once a week its all good.
 

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I have banged her before and that was around 10-12 months ago after a work party.

Ideally all I want from this chick is BJ or a fuk once a week or a fortnight.. Simply a plate.

However my question is, is it OK for me to be the one mostly arranging the sex meets?

In-between the sex I don't give a fuk if we text each other or not. Aslong she is giving that azz up once a week its all good.
If she goes to HR and complains of sexual harassment don't say we didn't tell you so...
 
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