Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
We have finally approached the hottie and gotten her digits. She has agreed to get together, and everything is perfect. Then she will ask you in order to test you, or just to know, "What are we doing?" The reality is that most of us have experience this situation, and don't know how to respond. The main reason is that in the midst of pursuing, and securing the date, we haven't thought that far ahead to be concerned about what to do. To us, worrying about what will we do will be a nice problem to have if the hottie agrees to get together. Even if she doesn't ask where you will be taking her, you will start to ask yourself, and probably end up coming to these boards to get advice for ideas.
You don't need to tell her exactly what you have planned, yet it is important you yourself have a clear idea and plan as to how the day will go. Get her involved in more "action dates", and/or things that are different and unique; here are some things, most of the following activities I've done in the past, the other few I avoided, I still found that women love; and they don't involve dancing, drinking or MOVIE & DINNER. Please post some of your ideas and things that have worked for you.
1. Arcade/ Miniature Golf /Batting Cages.
Sometimes found all in the same location. Some of these places might also have race cars.
2. Comedy Clubs.
3. Zoo/Seaworld.
Girlies love this one; not too many men think of it. They've all said to me "The zoo? That's really cool, no guys has ever taken me to the zoo"; then they keep asking for weeks, "When are we going to to the zoo?"; yeah, might sound kind of goofy to us guys, but works like a charm. Might be because most women are nurturing and love animals.
4. Bring her along.
Take her to hang out while you do your things like shopping for music, going to the mall, book store, etc. If she's into you at this point, she will really ejoy that.
5. Work Out Date.
Once she's confortable, invite her to go work out. There's something about working, raises the hormones, you can get some physical contact, and it will be a unique experience for her.
6. Get her too cook for you at your place.
Tell her to cook for you and bring it over. Cook a meal together. Bake together. Carve a pumpkin, etc. Good reason to get her to your place. Can't go wrong with that one.
7. Hang out at the park or the beach.
Most babes like rollerblading, bike riding, etc. Women have some kind of fantasy about the whole beach experience, so take advantage of it.
8. Casinos.
If you don't live in or near Las Vegas, Atlantic City, or any near gamblin' city, find out if there are any casinos operated by Native Americans. This is definitely something different, and can be fun.
9. Museums.
There are many kinds to suit your taste. Art, science, astronomy, culture, etc.
10. Concerts.
If you don't want to spend too much money, specially early, look for local shows and bands that are coming or performing in small clubs. Always look at it as something that you want to do, and you're just bringing her along.
11. State Fair.
Yes, I know, sounds kind of "girlie", and that's exactly what it is. Women love the fair. I don't get it, but they are wired for it.
12. Movie at home.
Perfect if you want to keep her in your place. This is where its up to you to make it an "action date." If she's an outdoor type of gal, this might not work all the time. So resort to it sparringly.
Whatever you do, keep it fresh. Most of the above things are different than the things we, and most guys do for typical "dates." Somewhere on date #20, or whatever, give her the chance to pick, but only if you've been in charge all the way since the beginning.
If you are still involved with her after you run out of some of these ideas, it means that you are both confortable, she really likes spending time with you and doesn't care what you two do together, and/or you are more serious, etc. By this time you can do almost anything without coming off as boring or trying to impress her. Always keep it interesting.
You don't need to tell her exactly what you have planned, yet it is important you yourself have a clear idea and plan as to how the day will go. Get her involved in more "action dates", and/or things that are different and unique; here are some things, most of the following activities I've done in the past, the other few I avoided, I still found that women love; and they don't involve dancing, drinking or MOVIE & DINNER. Please post some of your ideas and things that have worked for you.
1. Arcade/ Miniature Golf /Batting Cages.
Sometimes found all in the same location. Some of these places might also have race cars.
2. Comedy Clubs.
3. Zoo/Seaworld.
Girlies love this one; not too many men think of it. They've all said to me "The zoo? That's really cool, no guys has ever taken me to the zoo"; then they keep asking for weeks, "When are we going to to the zoo?"; yeah, might sound kind of goofy to us guys, but works like a charm. Might be because most women are nurturing and love animals.
4. Bring her along.
Take her to hang out while you do your things like shopping for music, going to the mall, book store, etc. If she's into you at this point, she will really ejoy that.
5. Work Out Date.
Once she's confortable, invite her to go work out. There's something about working, raises the hormones, you can get some physical contact, and it will be a unique experience for her.
6. Get her too cook for you at your place.
Tell her to cook for you and bring it over. Cook a meal together. Bake together. Carve a pumpkin, etc. Good reason to get her to your place. Can't go wrong with that one.
7. Hang out at the park or the beach.
Most babes like rollerblading, bike riding, etc. Women have some kind of fantasy about the whole beach experience, so take advantage of it.
8. Casinos.
If you don't live in or near Las Vegas, Atlantic City, or any near gamblin' city, find out if there are any casinos operated by Native Americans. This is definitely something different, and can be fun.
9. Museums.
There are many kinds to suit your taste. Art, science, astronomy, culture, etc.
10. Concerts.
If you don't want to spend too much money, specially early, look for local shows and bands that are coming or performing in small clubs. Always look at it as something that you want to do, and you're just bringing her along.
11. State Fair.
Yes, I know, sounds kind of "girlie", and that's exactly what it is. Women love the fair. I don't get it, but they are wired for it.
12. Movie at home.
Perfect if you want to keep her in your place. This is where its up to you to make it an "action date." If she's an outdoor type of gal, this might not work all the time. So resort to it sparringly.
Whatever you do, keep it fresh. Most of the above things are different than the things we, and most guys do for typical "dates." Somewhere on date #20, or whatever, give her the chance to pick, but only if you've been in charge all the way since the beginning.
If you are still involved with her after you run out of some of these ideas, it means that you are both confortable, she really likes spending time with you and doesn't care what you two do together, and/or you are more serious, etc. By this time you can do almost anything without coming off as boring or trying to impress her. Always keep it interesting.
