Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Hickeys

darksprezzatura

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 22, 2017
Messages
938
Reaction score
1,229
I like having hickeys. Call it immature or a high school thing but they look hot morning after.

So now I have a couple of hickeys from two different girls.

I have two dates today as well. I usually cover hickeys with a concealer before a date.

What's your opinion are they too immature/attention seeking or the pre-selection bias overpowers that anyway?
 

jimwho

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2020
Messages
368
Reaction score
400
Age
62
Hickeys are super neato in 3rd grade, or as an adult on the Labia.
 

PowerQuest

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 30, 2019
Messages
1,012
Reaction score
866
Location
Denmark
I usually cover hickeys with a concealer before a date.
Why?
I never do that.
Having the kissing/sucking marks on your neck etc.. It works great as a booster because it sets in several factors like:
1.) It shows that other girls like you e.g. pre-selected
2.) Sets off female competition anxiety as it shows her too that other girls want you too.
3.) To them; they think you're bad boi/player and most chicks dig that even though they say the opposite ha ha.
4.) Obviously shows that you don't give f'uck and that she is not the only chick you're dating.
 
Last edited:

TheProspect

Moderator
Joined
Feb 5, 2016
Messages
795
Reaction score
1,549
I like having hickeys. Call it immature or a high school thing but they look hot morning after.

So now I have a couple of hickeys from two different girls.

I have two dates today as well. I usually cover hickeys with a concealer before a date.

What's your opinion are they too immature/attention seeking or the pre-selection bias overpowers that anyway?
Personally I don't like giving or receiving hickeys, I think they're tacky and it seems like something young teenagers do.

That being said, I instruct fitness & yoga classes in a heated environment (so I'm often shirtless) and sometimes forget I have scratches on my back, chest, and arms from the night before lol. How the chicks in class perceive it could go either way, but I'm not using to implicitly demonstrate I get laid.

I think that if you receive hickeys or scratches as the result of some good sex and you like it, then good for you -- to each their own. On the other hand, if your intention of receiving them and displaying them to other women is to make a certain impression, then I'd say that behaviour is both attention seeking and, to an extent, qualifying yourself (which is not necessarily a negative thing).
 

LoboSolitario

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 17, 2021
Messages
362
Reaction score
325
are they too immature/attention seeking
yes. lack of class. you need to display to the world your private business? ask yourself why.

the pre-selection bias overpowers that anyway?
It's not preselection. It is tacky and nobody knows who gave it to or how you got it. Some could even think ......queer?

It makes me think of the people on the Jeremy Kyle show (uk) or Jerry Springer (us)

from two different girls.

I have two dates today as well.
You are in abundance. you should have a swagger about you. Women can tell. They will pick up on your vibe without you having to advertise it.
 

image

"If you love women, you must read the SoSuave Guide to Women. It's fantastic!"

Hal9000

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2019
Messages
484
Reaction score
685
I don't give them but its been my experience that women like to give them, presumably to mark their man, or whatever.
 

SargeMaximus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 14, 2020
Messages
1,814
Reaction score
839
Age
33
My fwb used to apologize profusely for giving me hickies. I told her it was good advertising. She hasn’t given me any since. Make of that what you will.
 

Tilex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 12, 2018
Messages
663
Reaction score
715
Age
41
I don't like them because I'm not in high school anymore.
It's very difficult to hide when you're constantly dealing with people in public.

I knew guys in my class back in HS that would use the vacuum cleaner method.
They would use the detachable tube portion of the vacuum cleaner and press it up against their neck.
Voilà!
 

Don Dark Horse

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 2, 2021
Messages
56
Reaction score
57
Age
22
Depends on the kind of girl you are trying to attract.

Some will dig it. Others will think it's silly. Ask the ladies what they think about them on your date, lol?
 
Top