Scars
Master Don Juan
There seems to be a big trend here. It seems like the majority of the users here can at least hold their own in meeting and opening up woman (getting the number), but always come back confused wondering why their girl flaked on them when they ask for another meet-up.
I'm going to share a secret that has worked for me. I've stressed this a couple times in the past, but I think it completely works. There is absolutely no rush to ask them out! A lot of you guys feel the need to jump right into it to show your "sexuality" or "manlyness". But asking her out is not the only way to show your interest. You need to utilize more tools in your game. You need to engage in more playful conversations and make them sexual. And you should already butter her up a little bit before even asking for a date anyway. You don't have to talk to her for an hour. But don't go into asking right after the "hey how was your day?" make a few playful jokes first. Then go in for the kill. In fact, if you ask her right away.. it just makes you look needy. Regardless if you utilize this whole "wait 3 days" bs. No, 3 days? Really? It's still in the same week. You met her last weekend, and are already to hang out with her the next? No. You should have a line of woman waiting for a chance to be with you. If you don't, fake it until you make it, or at least make her wonder about it. I would say, give her a call in 3 days. But joke with her a bit, be playful, be sexual, then pull one of those "well hey, I gotta run. I'll talk to you later." If you text, even better. Keep her waiting. You guys want to jump to the date right away, but as long as you are engaging in playful and sexual conversations she will NOT deny your manlyness or sexuality. Get her juices flowing a bit. You guys need to work on comforting more and raising her emotional state. Once this light bulb finally clicks on your success rate will sky rocket. Also, read some of my past stuff about using a womans "imagination" to your advantage. Sexual innuendos/references that aren't direct are one of the best tools you could ever utilize. You got to make this girl think that the next time she see's you she will have the most amazing time of her life. You know how you make this happen? You got to butter her up and get her juices flowing. If you can get this girl all hott and bothered over a phone, imagine what she's thinking when she finally comes to meet you again. This time, the ice is broken and you made it entirely clear what your intentions are.
So basically, keep it sexual. You don't have to even talk that long. Keep it short and to the point, but make sure you get those hitters in there. Don't be ashamed of your sexuality. If the opportunity arises to where she says something and you can turn it around and make it dirtily playful then do it. Make this girl laugh a little bit and she will be more comfortable and receptive to you. Start working a little more on the "comfort" area. Be different then the other guys. Give her a buzz to just chat for a minute. You might think this is beta behavior, but what defines beta from alpha is how you present yourself. Betas will hide their sexuality. Alphas don't.
Good luck.
-Scars
I'm going to share a secret that has worked for me. I've stressed this a couple times in the past, but I think it completely works. There is absolutely no rush to ask them out! A lot of you guys feel the need to jump right into it to show your "sexuality" or "manlyness". But asking her out is not the only way to show your interest. You need to utilize more tools in your game. You need to engage in more playful conversations and make them sexual. And you should already butter her up a little bit before even asking for a date anyway. You don't have to talk to her for an hour. But don't go into asking right after the "hey how was your day?" make a few playful jokes first. Then go in for the kill. In fact, if you ask her right away.. it just makes you look needy. Regardless if you utilize this whole "wait 3 days" bs. No, 3 days? Really? It's still in the same week. You met her last weekend, and are already to hang out with her the next? No. You should have a line of woman waiting for a chance to be with you. If you don't, fake it until you make it, or at least make her wonder about it. I would say, give her a call in 3 days. But joke with her a bit, be playful, be sexual, then pull one of those "well hey, I gotta run. I'll talk to you later." If you text, even better. Keep her waiting. You guys want to jump to the date right away, but as long as you are engaging in playful and sexual conversations she will NOT deny your manlyness or sexuality. Get her juices flowing a bit. You guys need to work on comforting more and raising her emotional state. Once this light bulb finally clicks on your success rate will sky rocket. Also, read some of my past stuff about using a womans "imagination" to your advantage. Sexual innuendos/references that aren't direct are one of the best tools you could ever utilize. You got to make this girl think that the next time she see's you she will have the most amazing time of her life. You know how you make this happen? You got to butter her up and get her juices flowing. If you can get this girl all hott and bothered over a phone, imagine what she's thinking when she finally comes to meet you again. This time, the ice is broken and you made it entirely clear what your intentions are.
So basically, keep it sexual. You don't have to even talk that long. Keep it short and to the point, but make sure you get those hitters in there. Don't be ashamed of your sexuality. If the opportunity arises to where she says something and you can turn it around and make it dirtily playful then do it. Make this girl laugh a little bit and she will be more comfortable and receptive to you. Start working a little more on the "comfort" area. Be different then the other guys. Give her a buzz to just chat for a minute. You might think this is beta behavior, but what defines beta from alpha is how you present yourself. Betas will hide their sexuality. Alphas don't.
Good luck.
-Scars
