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But what explains why OLD in general, the last 3 or 4 years the quality is so bad? I'm not just saying women getting fatter, but more tats, piercings, short purple hair and such. The swipe apps are a big freak show of the women above. I don't remember them having as many of those 4 years ago.

Even a premium site like Match that once had more decent women that too is nothing about tats and piercings, single moms etc.

Can you provide any insight on that?
Because OLD is mostly losers.
 

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Correct. if I go on Hinge all I see is heavy set black ladies, or tatted fat women. Tinder a lot of tatted, ugly and pierced tatted women. The people who brag about Tinder, etc. on here are usually from NYC, LA, Chicago etc. When I look at these OLD sites it's a lot of whales and tats.
We told you - move.

You live in an area of old people and fat people. Hot women don’t move to retirement areas in south Florida. They go to Miami, Atlanta, NYC, LA, etc. Your dating experience will not change until you move. No amount of game will create hot women in your area.
 

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But what explains why OLD in general, the last 3 or 4 years the quality is so bad? I'm not just saying women getting fatter, but more tats, piercings, short purple hair and such. The swipe apps are a big freak show of the women above. I don't remember them having as many of those 4 years ago.

Even a premium site like Match that once had more decent women that too is nothing about tats and piercings, single moms etc.

Can you provide any insight on that?
You are in a very rough area i suspect
 

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I guess I was luckey tine-wise. Tinder was great in ‘19. Before Covid. Great women. And fine, even in sparsely populated areas. I loved it. Sad that it appears to have declined so much. It was an absolute gamechanger back then. Then again, I heard it was even better back in the early-mid 2010s.
 

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Not even close. I kill it on these platforms and I wouldn't consider myself a top 20% male, at least in terms of looks. In terms of other things like career, build, personality, attitude, drive, etc for sure.

In terms of bedroom ability, top 0.05%.

Guys need to stop making excuses and start learning how to actually pique woman's interests to make them want to meet up
Pls tell us how you do it, because we all doing it wrong and I for one have given up on OLD.
 

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I think there is some truth to this.

How men on swipe apps think (regardless of their own attractiveness): Men are like fishermen casting a large net to see what they can catch. They will swipe right on anything that is a HB 6.5 and above, because what is there to lose?

How women (attractive women) on swipe apps think: Women have their distance setting to maybe 15-20 miles maximum and are a lot more selective on who they "swipe right" on. Unless you are "strikingly handsome" you are not going to get many matches.

How I came to this conclusion: I consider myself attractive (7 to 7.5), but I am not movie star good-looking. I also live in central Jersey where I won't even come up on an attractive woman's radar (due to distance) since I don't live in the NYC/Philly metro area.

Once every couple of weeks I will get a "match" on Bumble even though I swipe right on dozens of attractive women every day.
Men display, women choose. That's reality.

If you're not being chosen then you aren't good enough. Women decide who gets laid in this current society, not men.

Don't like it? Then you gotta go back to the 1950's patriarchy.

Personally, I'm okay with the current market because I get chosen. The only downside is that ratchet ho's with smelly boxes are everywhere now and I'm a hygiene freak.
 
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Men display, women choose. That's reality.

If you're not being chosen then you aren't good enough. Women decide who gets laid in this current society, not men.

Don't like it? Then you gotta go back to the 1950's patriarchy.

Personally, I'm okay with the current market because I get chosen. The only downside it that ratchet ho's with smelly boxes are everywhere now and I'm a hygiene freak.
My dvck doesn’t have a nose.
 

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Closest my nose get’s to the hole is her nipples.
You should respect your own penis more. Don't put your penis in stank ho's. Self respect is foundational to progression on the path to male greatness.
 

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Pls tell us how you do it, because we all doing it wrong and I for one have given up on OLD.
The guys who aren't giving up on online game are the guys getting laid from it. You've gotta be rewarded by OLD to find it worthwhile. Having Game helps a lot, but you've gotta look good too to get the match in the first place. From there it's all about text game and getting her to meet you. It's a very systematic thing. There's no guesswork. It's a cold, calculated machine.

The main problem is that the vast majority of guys are not attractive for women (90%+ I'd say). If you fall into that category then you've got plenty of company.
 

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The guys who aren't giving up on online game are the guys getting laid from it. You've gotta be rewarded by OLD to find it worthwhile. Having Game helps a lot, but you've gotta look good too to get the match in the first place. From there it's all about text game and getting her to meet you. It's a very systematic thing. There's no guesswork. It's a cold, calculated machine.

The main problem is that the vast majority of guys are not attractive for women (90%+ I'd say). If you fall into that category then you've got plenty of company.
What about if you're getting matches but they ghost after chatting?
 

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Not even close. I kill it on these platforms and I wouldn't consider myself a top 20% male, at least in terms of looks. In terms of other things like career, build, personality, attitude, drive, etc for sure.

In terms of bedroom ability, top 0.05%.

Guys need to stop making excuses and start learning how to actually pique woman's interests to make them want to meet up
You’re obviously better looking than you think you are. Women don’t even bother to read bios unless one has passed her looks threshold. As for bedroom ability. Unless you’re running a ‘grey sweats bulge game’, how would a woman know your bedroom skills?
 

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You’re obviously better looking than you think you are. Women don’t even bother to read bios unless one has passed her looks threshold. As for bedroom ability. Unless you’re running a ‘grey sweats bulge game’, how would a woman know your bedroom skills?
They don't, but they sure are happy they took the time to find out.
 

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It's OVER for 80%Cels.
It is over.

The 90% sexless losers need to unite and collectively WITHDRAW from the market. Withdraw from simping. They also need to police the simping of their members and beat to death the simps.

BluePill simping is what is propelling this nightmare for them.
 
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