Excellent. You handled that well, but you can't count on that strategy being effective forever.Hiker said:To All: Thank you so much for your responses. Your words are wise and give me strength.
I'm trying my absolute best not to think of her and stay busy.
She's called me 10 times in the last 20 minutes. I haven't answered.
She will find a way to make contact with you:
She knows your habits, stomping grounds, routine, friends, where you work, etc. It's unrealistic to think you will be able to avoid her forever. Realize this and prepare for when it happens.
She will make concessions:
After she manufactures a way to get an audience with you, she will try to appeal to your ego and tell you that "you were right" about "x, y, and z". This will make you feel good in the interim, but ultimately is a ploy to distract you.
She will try to make you jealous:
See the history of man. "Ain't nobody got time for that". It's a largely pointless emotion.
"Didn't our time together mean anything to you?":
Of course it did. It means that you are older, smarter, wiser. It means you are grateful for the experiences you had together. Ultimately those experiences will make you a better partner for the woman you end up with.