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Guys who meet girls through daygame, how the heck do you do it?

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Good stuff throughout this thread so far gents. Yeah, day gamers do act like they are on the spectrum and man it is so creepy to see this discouraging crap too. Maybe its because people on the spectrum are likely to need daygame to meet women but ho-lee-phuk that nonsense I saw from Simple PickUp and RSD is frightening. I mean what are some of these people thinking?

I wish there were videos of normal men approaching.
I dont know dude. Troy Francis does a pretty god dam goof job of it. Right on London streets.
Just because you think poorly of something like this doesn't mean it can't be mastered. Just gotta go for it

 

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Exactly, it's not a 'game', it's just you living your life.

Meeting a woman is just one step in the screening process. The reason so many men have trouble with this is that they get ahead of themselves. They see a chick and they say to themselves "I'm going to bang her." Then when that doesn't happen they think they fail, and it's fear of failure that keeps them from even trying.

As the late great Doc Love once said, "The woman has to like you first, if she doesn't you never had a chance."

Everything in this process is used to screen out chicks that you don't have a chance with.

See a woman.
try to start up a conversation, if she won't engage -- flush
try to get her number, if she won't give it to you -- flush
try and make a date, if she won't -- flush
you make a date and she doesn't show up or flakes -- flush

It is ONLY when she actually meets you one on one on a date does ANYTHING actually start or that this woman is actually real. Until you get to this point she is NOTHING.

Half the chicks you see on the street are not available, you don't have a chance with them. At least half (depending on how you show up it's going to be more) of the chicks that aren't already in relationships aren't going to be attracted to you. Half of these that aren't taken AND do find you attractive are juggling other dudes they like better. Then you have all kinds of stupid chick emotional BS that is going to be pulling her in multiple directions (friends, sisters, kids, exes, work, bad habits, bills, etc etc et. al ad infinitum..... that is going to keep her from actually responding and showing up. You can't control any of that... all you can do is respond to what she does.

Bottom line.... you can't get any chick you want. Just because you are attracted to her is irrelevant. PUAs and relationship coaches are more than happy to take your money to try and get results where results are not possible. But yeah... it is possible to get a woman out on a date that is really not into you... but who wants to spend money on dates that are not going to be any fun at all. Who wants to have anything to do with a chick that really doesn't want you... that's not fun at all.
+1

DOC (rip) is among the first OGs I came across. While it's more geared towards LTRs and vetting for value! Similar to MM, the framework is solid and the abundance of gems puts 99% of the YouTube rubbish to shame. Particularly, the emphasis on interest level is profound. While simple and essentially common sense, most guys are retarded with women. Furthermore the culture is cuckoldry on steroids. None of which aids in masculinity or being a unapologetically masculine alpha male in 2021. You NAILED IT. Everything is about her liking you. Approach is just a tool to test interest levels. I don't need every girl. I want top form smv 18-23? As every other man meaning I need to put work in!

Flush! Lulz!!! I like that.

You hit on about logistics. It's awful and a lot of times out of your control. Has a husband, bf, is dating lots of other men, is gay, feminist, old etc.

I do see value in the right BC as most guys will watch a 365 day bender of RP and approach no girls but they RP everybody. In any event there's no magic pill. I just take my shot and let the chips fall where they may.

It's not rocket science. @ Op a model pua argued a 10% success rate. 90% of the time a model pua is taking Ls. It is what it is. Get on with it.
 

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It's not so difficult. Yesterday I was carrying a small amount of groceries home when I cut through a park. This woman was jogging around the field. The first time she passed me she looked at me and smiled. When I she came by the 2nd time around I pointed to her shoes and made a comment about them then had some chit chat about running for a while. I could've moved things forward easily had I wanted. (Wasn't my type)

That's all there is to it. This sort of thing happens to me a few times a week. If you get a good reaction when you make eye contact the process is smooth as butter. It's only hard when there is NO interest
Agreed, always find something to complement about their outfit, shoes, shorts whatever.. NEVER make your compliment about their looks. (Some women win the genetic lottery, don't praise them for this).
 
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Good stuff on the thread so far. I think my biggest weakness with daygame is not the opener per se but going from open to getting her number since like, wtf in her head right? Like how is she processing the whole "wait this dude just met me this minute"? How do you make it comfortable for her?
 

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Good stuff on the thread so far. I think my biggest weakness with daygame is not the opener per se but going from open to getting her number since like, wtf in her head right? Like how is she processing the whole "wait this dude just met me this minute"? How do you make it comfortable for her?
"Hey, I have to go meet a friend but I'd love to grab a drink with you sometime... what's your number?"
 

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Agreed, always find something to complement about their outfit, shoes, shorts whatever.. NEVER make your compliment about their looks. (Some women win the genetic lottery, don't praise them for this).
You can do that afterwards but not as an opener - it's chumpish. Anything that is relevant works -- in my case she was running so I brought up her ultra boosts. They know why you are talking to them anyways so that's why you don't to center on their looks.
 

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Exactly, it's not a 'game', it's just you living your life.

Meeting a woman is just one step in the screening process. The reason so many men have trouble with this is that they get ahead of themselves. They see a chick and they say to themselves "I'm going to bang her." Then when that doesn't happen they think they fail, and it's fear of failure that keeps them from even trying.

As the late great Doc Love once said, "The woman has to like you first, if she doesn't you never had a chance."

Everything in this process is used to screen out chicks that you don't have a chance with.

See a woman.
Flush.
 

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You can do that afterwards but not as an opener - it's chumpish. Anything that is relevant works -- in my case she was running so I brought up her ultra boosts. They know why you are talking to them anyways so that's why you don't to center on their looks.
Agree 100%. I always look at what shoes a girl is wearing and you can usually get a conversation from that.
 

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I live in Manhattan and every single day I see so many beautiful women passing by, even when I look out my apartment, dimes almost every hour walking through. Now I have seen these clownish pickup videos where dudes do creepy stuff like hold girls hands and all that goofy nonsense, it has made me get a warped view of daygame to where I stay away from it.

We also kind of have a MeToo culture in Manhattan where people are commonly filming videos of women being catcalled that go viral so I don't want to be that creep either.

How are you guys who pull off daygame do it in a way where you are not that creepy guy in the neighborhood perceived as harassing women?
I wanted to approach women for years but the fear of being creepy or bothering people held me back for like 5-6 years. Finally I got sick of missing out on so many opportunities and started approaching. I've gotten a wide variety of reactions. Some girls have said I'm so sweet and thanked me for approaching them. Others have been extremely creeped out and looked at me like approaching them was a horrible disgusting thing to do. In order to do this and actually persist with it you have to not care how people react to you. Which is more important to you: achieving your goals and getting this area of your life figured out or never taking the risk of saying anything that could possibly bother, offend, or creep someone out?
 

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Good stuff on the thread so far. I think my biggest weakness with daygame is not the opener per se but going from open to getting her number since like, wtf in her head right? Like how is she processing the whole "wait this dude just met me this minute"? How do you make it comfortable for her?
Go do it. Post back.

Complain about simple pickup or rsd. These guys are not posting threads about #s?

Do like Julien blanc. Approach a handful everyday. Do like Tusk and approach 30 a week. Do like Rooshv and approach sets of 100.

Pick a path. Post results. Getting numbers or ig is a joke. The flakes and dodgey sluts are your next hurdle. It never stops.

Cut the ****. Take action.

Your mindset is all ****ed up.

I don't care about her comfort. I want her uncomfortable and trying to make me comfortable. I bait and switch. Skip the open. Just start talking to girls. Post back.

Every girl is just practice. All I want to know is when I tell her to take her clothes off she follows instructions and she makes sandwiches after. srs!
 
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Oh man, here we go, the PUA crowd never dies does it? Even though PUAs are getting jailed and publicly shamed, people are still spreading the nonsense of aggressively going after women to where you creep them out. You always pick them out too in a forum, they are the morons who go on with the whole "UGH like JUST DO ET Breh!", yeah just go out into the street and approach like a socially retarded mad man.
 
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Hey man, what's your ****in problem? You come on to my thread and attack me when this has no reason to get heated at all. We are grown men having a civil discussion like grown men do. What are you trying to do here and what nonsense of yours are you trying to get sell me?

Not interested, I rather hear from the pros, and if your "advice" is really that good, I'd suggest you start your own game journal and come with evidence of you sleeping with girls you met through daygame. That's a whole lot of pent up frustration you'd usually see with some teenager playing Fortnite, not a dude that gets laid.

Go get your lotion, rub one out, and let grown men talk. Imbecile.
 

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Oh man, here we go, the PUA crowd never dies does it? Even though PUAs are getting jailed and publicly shamed, people are still spreading the nonsense of aggressively going after women to where you creep them out. You always pick them out too in a forum, they are the morons who go on with the whole "UGH like JUST DO ET Breh!", yeah just go out into the street and approach like a socially retarded mad man.
You started a thread asking how to approach women, because you obviously wish you could, but just don't have the balls to do it. Then, you call those of us who do it "socially retarded mad men." Lmfao. Shut yo damn mouth you coward faggot.
 

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No she won't this is just a PUA fantasy used to hook gullible desperate men into some stupid training course or mentorship

Women do NOT want to be approached by random blokes in the street in the middle of the day chatting utter ****e about philosophy and "kino"

20 years ago it was barely acceptable now it's just wierd

Can you imagine in her group chat

" omg some creep just grabbed me in the street and tried to do a palm reading on me "
Even below-average looking girls cringe when they talk about guys doing "pickups."

I've heard them talk. Saying how they dread taking their dog for a walk in the park because of how many guys have tried to do "pickups" on them.
 

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Even below-average looking girls cringe when they talk about guys doing "pickups."

I've heard them talk. Saying how they dread taking their dog for a walk in the park because of how many guys have tried to do "pickups" on them.
Says the guy who admittedly has spent over 100k on hookers. Lmao. Shut the fvck up idiot
 
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Says the guy who admittedly has spent over 100k on hookers. Lmao. Shut the fvck up idiot
You mean the guy who's been with more and hotter girls than you could ever dream of? While you practice your "PUA" skills like a high school freshman.

You mean the guy who lives in a mansion and travels to over 30 countries every year?

The guy who's been with 20 hot girls in the past 6 weeks? Lemme guess... You did better with your peacocking and hypnotism skills HAHA
 

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You mean the guy who's been with more and hotter girls than you could ever dream of?
Not true at all. You can only get the girls you pay for and apparently dont have the balls to approach women. You rationalize your cowardice by saying it's "creepy." Lmao. grow a pair dumbass. :p
 

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Not true at all. You can only get the girls you pay for and apparently dont have the balls to approach women. You rationalize your cowardice by saying it's "creepy." Lmao. grow a pair dumbass. :p
Everybody pays for it in some way. You sound like a 16 year old.

You are obviously inexperienced in life, Mr. PUA
 

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Even below-average looking girls cringe when they talk about guys doing "pickups."

I've heard them talk. Saying how they dread taking their dog for a walk in the park because of how many guys have tried to do "pickups" on them.

Although I agree and many find it socially unacceptable, I think women complaining about it are usually subtly bragging to other women about how they've been approached 'look I am hot, random men approach me during the day' etc etc.

If they didn't find the man attractive they're not interested and make him out to be a creep.
 
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