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Machine10033

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I don’t own them.... if a girl wants me to use something on her she better bring it. I don’t think they would be cool with letting a dude use communal sex toys on them.
 

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If a girl knows you use sex toys she subconsciously assumes you have a sh1t d1ck.

sex toys are super beta. You’re communicating “my d1ck isn’t enough. I have a suitcase full of toys to appease women because making women sexually satisfied is extremely important to me.”
 

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I doubt that attitudes have changed over the decades (back in my 20's I used one on several different women).

I certainly wasn't going to volunteer that information, but I was surprised that none of them asked if they were the first. I'm not sure if that's because they didn't want to know, or they assumed that it was provided for them.

And by the way... until your posting, I never realized that we had so many prudes on this forum.
 

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Seems we all have different opinions on this one.

I mine as well chime in…

When I was young and clueless, I used a few toys with my 1st wife. It was a terrible marriage.

As a wiser male, I never have needed for any toys with my forever wife. It is a wonderful marriage.

As a mature man, I realize that s*x is about pleasing the man so he stays committed to sharing his valuable resources with his woman.

For a woman: being wanted by a resourceful man that the woman wants IS the ultimate turn on.

If toys please the man, great, eg the feeling of control. But toys should not be solely about pleasing the woman.

Women get just as much pleasure from cuddling and receiving massages from their man than from s*.

You can use a toy, but you really don’t need them.

Your mileage may vary.
 

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When I want my girl to squirt, I use a sex toy on her. I can usually get her to squirt during sex and massaging her cl!t, but she really explodes with al three.. Don't knock it until you try it dudes..
Nothing wrong with adding some spice. Changing it up a bit keeps it from turning into the same routine.
Some forum members appear to be protesting a little too much. I wonder if they fear that the woman will like the supplement more than their own package (or perhaps this has already previously happened?)
 

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@catsmeow Have you ever used toy that was provided by a lover, that you didn't know if it was used on others?
 

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Nothing wrong with adding some spice. Changing it up a bit keeps it from turning into the same routine.
Some forum members appear to be protesting a little too much. I wonder if they fear that the woman will like the supplement more than their own package (or perhaps this has already previously happened?)
Gay guys use the same argument to try to convince straight guys to try anal sex. "You worried about trying something a bit different? You worried you're not open minded enough and you probably bad at sex too?"

It's not about compensating for your package. If you train your girl to enjoy sex toys, then switching back to regular sex isn't so smooth. It's like exposing your child to violent movies or porn. If you want your woman to stay pure and feminine, treating her like a homosexual using sex toys isn't the way to do it.
 

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If you train your girl to enjoy sex toys, then switching back to regular sex isn't so smooth.
Luckily, this hasn't been my experience (at least so far and hopefully never will be). I'm sure that you wouldn't be making the above claim - if not from your personal experience. Sorry to read this.

Hate to break it to you, but women are just like men; they also perform 'solo projects' on themselves (and many use sexual aids for that enhancement). No 'chest-thumping' intended, but if you'd slept with enough women, you'd already know this. After all.. this isn't some guarded female secret.

. If you want your woman to stay pure and feminine, treating her like a homosexual using sex toys isn't the way to do it.
I've never been with a homosexual, therefor, I wasn't aware that they have a thing for sex toys. Again, judging by your response, it sounds like you may also be more qualified to speak about homosexuality practices than I.

One thing I do know is... that with women that permit it, I've entered their 'back door' on many occasions. And it hasn't made me hard for a dude yet, nor has this compelled women to suddenly have muffin cravings.
 

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Luckily, this hasn't been my experience (at least so far and hopefully never will be). I'm sure that you wouldn't be making the above claim - if not from your personal experience. Sorry to read this.

Hate to break it to you, but women are just like men; they also perform 'solo projects' on themselves (and many use sexual aids for that enhancement). No 'chest-thumping' intended, but if you'd slept with enough women, you'd already know this. After all.. this isn't some guarded female secret.



I've never been with a homosexual, therefor, I wasn't aware that they have a thing for sex toys. Again, judging by your response, it sounds like you may also be more qualified to speak about homosexuality practices than I.

One thing I do know is... that with women that permit it, I've entered their 'back door' on many occasions. And it hasn't made me hard for a dude yet, nor has this compelled women to suddenly have muffin cravings.
You’re using the same homosexual trick again man. It’s very transparent - “Oh I guess you tried anal sex and you weren’t good at it? Maybe your d1ck doesn’t work etc etc”

Everybody knows that vibrators, for example, over stimulate the cl1toris and actually make it less sensitive over time, requiring heavier and heavier buzzing. It’s sick.

It would strongly argue that Anyone who feels the need to use sex toys is actually revealing that they aren’t very good at regular sex. That seems to be the most logical conclusion to draw.
 

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Nothing wrong with adding some spice. Changing it up a bit keeps it from turning into the same routine.
Some forum members appear to be protesting a little too much. I wonder if they fear that the woman will like the supplement more than their own package (or perhaps this has already previously happened?)
Certainly possible. However, the only true way to know a female is satisfied is if she's squirting. One can fake the screaming and moaning. Some can time the clinching and shaking perfectly too. But the squirting, not so much. Though, the clean-up though is a pain.
 

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You’re using the same homosexual trick again man. It’s very transparent - “Oh I guess you tried anal sex and you weren’t good at it? Maybe your d1ck doesn’t work etc etc”

Everybody knows that vibrators, for example, over stimulate the cl1toris and actually make it less sensitive over time, requiring heavier and heavier buzzing. It’s sick.

It would strongly argue that Anyone who feels the need to use sex toys is actually revealing that they aren’t very good at regular sex. That seems to be the most logical conclusion to draw.
Opinions vary. But think what you wish.
 

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I've gotten good experiences with pulling out sex toys.

If you're worried about her jumping to conclusions, vet her first.

Then give her the sex toy as a present, still wrapped up.

Say something like:

"I bought this for you because I want to make you *** for a few hours, just to see what happens."
 

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For an LTR i think they are probably an absolute necessity to keep things interesting ....but then i enjoy seeing the girl i'm fvcking orgasm and maybe squirt some guys aren't bothered

i did pull a communal one out on a bumble ONS not long before Christmas and she was horrified but she wasn't very hot and i didn't really care

For plates normally i wouldn't bother until we are well accustomed to each other
 

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Everybody knows that vibrators, for example, over stimulate the cl1toris and actually make it less sensitive over time, requiring heavier and heavier buzzing. It’s sick.
Moderation is the key. Yes, over doing it can deaden certain nerves. Again, moderation.

You’re using the same homosexual trick again man. It’s very transparent - “Oh I guess you tried anal sex and you weren’t good at it? Maybe your d1ck doesn’t work etc etc”
You sure seem to have this fixation about gays (you bring up this topic in a lot of your postings).
Back in high school, I recall a few students that seemed to overuse the word phaggot. It turns out that they were repressed and eventually came out of the closet. What ever your situation is, I wish you well.
 

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Moderation is the key. Yes, over doing it can deaden certain nerves. Again, moderation.



You sure seem to have this fixation about gays (you bring up this topic in a lot of your postings).
Back in high school, I recall a few students that seemed to overuse the word phaggot. It turns out that they were repressed and eventually came out of the closet. What ever your situation is, I wish you well.
Gay acceptance = acceptance of everything we are trying to avoid as men. Homosexuality is a giant gaslight. There’s no such thing as Gay. Only men with no standards who will fvck anything. These Men with no standards are the cause of the general decline of women and men in the world.

It’s also a well-known fact that “Gays” regularly have sex with women. In fact, telling a woman that you are gay will cause her to like you more. You think intelligent men haven’t figured this out? You can get very close to a woman if she thinks you’re gay. It’s perfect for sneaky fvckers.

Gay gaslighting culture directly effects the quality of the women that surround me so of course it’s going to be a topic of interest for me.
 

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In your experience, are women okay with knowing that the toys have been used on other women previously?
Only the freaks, and even then they will make some demeaning comment.

I used to have a top of the line secks swing
And even that bothered some of them.
 
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