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Gut is telling me GF of 9 months is cheating, but I have no proof. help?

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She wants u out, obviously doesn't hv the guts 2 just inform u of her decision or just plain afraid of confrontation.

Classic immature female moves.

Take the lead, bow out like a man and move on.

Even if she's sorrowful or wants you back, it's best to move on bcoz women when they lose interest once will likely lose it again with you when u r not in top form.

U need 2 find those that will stick by u in good and bad times. Those r hard 2 come by.
 

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How can he do this when he is not getting sex to begin with? How does this suggestion make any sense with what OP just wrote?
Maybe I didn't express myself correctly: I meant this girl deserves a lesson. I think OP could turn the situation around and make her a FB if he knew how: go cold on her, that will drive her nuts and then play the validation game. But he probably can't so yeah
 
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She’s 18 he’s 22 whatever they had ran it’s course for her and instead of being mature about it and just telling him the connection is gone she’s acting like the teenage girl she is, who can’t communicate like an adult and is doing what teenage girls do, which is play games and act selfish. Hopefully she grows out of that because there is nothing more sad than seeing a grown woman with that kind of kind of behaviour.


At his age with his whole dating life ahead of him I would just move on.


And downgrading to a FB? In this case she is clearly done with him sexually so why the hell would she put out for him as a plate when she is currently not putting out for him as his gf?


I don’t imagine situations where LTR girlfriends play along with being downgraded to FB unless they have no self esteem or no options, or are just plain stupid.
 

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She’s 18 he’s 22 whatever they had ran it’s course for her and instead of being mature about it and just telling him the connection is gone she’s acting like the teenage girl she is, who can’t communicate like an adult and is doing what teenage girls do, which is play games and act selfish. Hopefully she grows out of that because there is nothing more sad than seeing a grown woman with that kind of kind of behaviour.


At his age with his whole dating life ahead of him I would just move on.


And downgrading to a FB? In this case she is clearly done with him sexually so why the hell would she put out for him as a plate when she is currently not putting out for him as his gf?


I don’t imagine situations where LTR girlfriends play along with being downgraded to FB unless they have no self esteem or no options, or are just plain stupid.
She is doing everything she is doing because there is no reaction or attitude on his part. Let him have an attitude first and then we can see what she says or does.
 

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FWIW... based on 30 plus years of dating.... ALWAY trust your gut. All the problems I have ever had with women in my life comes from failure to trust my gut instinct.

When women start to distance themselves from you just mirror her behavior and let it happen. If she likes you she'll come back around, and if she doesn't.... no problem, get off the ride and give the next dude his turn while you go find another ride. The worst thing you can do is to try and 'fix' this... all that is going to happen is she will make things harder and worst for you... or WORST she will hang around and punish you for not making her happy by turning into a fat nagging shrew.
 

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You don't have to analyze it. You don't need proof. If your gut is screaming at you and you don't enjoy what this relationship has become, get out of it.
Truth. Dating is supposed to be fun... when it is no longer fun, why would you do it? Dating a chick that is no fun is like having someone beat you with a switch while you set your money on fire.
 

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She wont hurt herself, and if she does, that is one of two things... a) natural selection, or b) it will be very minor. When she does that, you could call the authorities and say that your afraid a woman may commit suicide.

She has lost all respect for you which is nearly impossible to get back. Time to do the action she is too childish to do herself... end the relationship!

From her behavior, I say you pack up everything while shes away, and ghost her. Drop her a text with "it's been fun, but I think it's best we go out separate ways"
 

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Truth. Dating is supposed to be fun... when it is no longer fun, why would you do it? Dating a chick that is no fun is like having someone beat you with a switch while you set your money on fire.
Would "no fun" encompass a bad attitude, ultra critical and a bunch of excessive boundaries and rules?
 

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Would "no fun" encompass a bad attitude, ultra critical and a bunch of excessive boundaries and rules?
It really depends on the individual. Think about it from the perspective of when you were 8 years old on the play-ground. If the kids got together and started playing a game, and some a-hole started making so many rules that the game wasn't fun anymore, you would just walk away and find other kids to play with. Some would stick around and keep playing because the 'new rules' didn't bother them... and this is fine. I know a few men that actually think all the emotional BS games make things interesting... I OTOH really have little patience for that, but that is me. All games have a framework, but at some point the framework gets in the way of fun... this is going to be different for everyone.
 

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All signs point to her cheating on you.
 

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Did her vaginal scent and discharge change around that time? That's usually a good sigh of them taking on new cawks . Their body chemistry adjusts .
 

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She accused you of possible cheating, she probably is….
She got a knife and cut herself, she’s a physical danger to herself and possibly you.
You saw her crazy eyes yourself, Eject ASAP…
 
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First of all... Take a shower you scruffy fuk!

Anyhow bruv.. Wether she is cheating or not is irrelevant. The fact is, her behaviour towards you is terrible!

Once a female starts to disrespect you, its all downhill after that.

You either put her in her fukin place when the disrespect starts... Or you dump her Ass!

My suggestion is, you need to get rid of this one.

In the long run, this one will bring nothing but misery to your life.

Drop her, and find a quality girl, who isn't damaged like your current girl.
 

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Has she started dressing differently? Dieting? Working out or working out more? While I am 95% sure your GF is cheating on you, based on the car speeding off story alone, I'd say if she is doing any of these other things I've mentioned she is absolutely cheating on you. Put a hidden camera up, they sell them online and look like iphone chargers that plug into a wall outlet. $17...
 
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