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If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

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And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Good seasonal/part-time job to meet women

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It does take guts. Approaching women in real life is a lifestyle that requires training and dedication. Over the course of my life, I've read game/pickup books and websites. I also eat a diet of no processed ingredients and no soy ingredients to maximize testosterone. I do not watch porn or masturbate so as to be aggressive for in-person approaching. Cutting porn and mbate out of my life was one of the most difficult things that I ever did. It is very challenging to maintain. I also do my best to maintain an exercise routine. Prior to the pandemic, I was a regular weight lifter at the gym. I'm only doing body weight workouts on YouTube now.

When you implement all of these lifestyle practices, you are ready to go. You're confident in yourself and you're aggressive enough that you're not worried about your social limitations. You just want to meet and escalate with a woman. Today I stopped a woman running on a street because she gave me decent body language. It is supremely difficult to approach women during the day while sober, which is why most guys are app swipers. If they weren't app swipers, they were lounge lizards who needed alcohol in their systems to do approaches in the bars at night. When I meet women at the grocery store, the gym, or anywhere in public that isn't a bar, I'm ready to talk. Often times, my suggestion if a conversation goes well has been to meet for a drink at a certain bar. COVID has certain changed a lot of that. I'm mainly doing outdoor approaches now and dates have to either be outdoors or in the private location of my apartment.
 

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One of the things that you notice about So Suave: Many, many, if not all users wish they had come across this information earlier, specifically the Self-Development red pill.

I would recommend you take any time you have now and dedicate it to your Self-Development, start maxing out your opportunities and they will be plentiful and you will learn fast as a result.
 

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What is your goal? Is it to bang lots of different chicks? If so I don't want to encourage you to go down that path.
I do encourage you to be diligent in your work which may be serving customers who might happen to be female which may lead to love and marriage further down the line from meeting a female who works there or one of the female customers.

Places of work could be really anywhere that has females present. Yes some females ain't going to want to date a guy that works as a cashier at the supermarket but some will. You will be surprised some not so beautiful women won't consider dating you but some better looking women will. Also beware of a woman's physical beauty or wealth and I encourage you not to date based solely on those things.
 
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If someone needs extra money, I would recommend against getting a 2nd job in most cases. I would recommend looking for a primary job that pays more or doing spending cuts from the budget instead. A 2nd job will often cut the amount of free time available for dating endeavors.
 

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Looks like I got hired at a mid level department store in the mall (with many different departments) It's just seasonal and you do alot of everything (stock, cleaning up, work the register). It's a little emasculating but there are some hotties that work there.
 

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Looks like I got hired at a mid level department store in the mall (with many different departments) It's just seasonal and you do alot of everything (stock, cleaning up, work the register). It's a little emasculating but there are some hotties that work there.
Keeping busy is a blessing these days, also these little interactions in customer service will bolster your confidence and develop your social skills/body language
 

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Keeping busy is a blessing these days, also these little interactions in customer service will bolster your confidence and develop your social skills/body language
Thanks, but I worked as a call center agent and 10 years at the front desk of a busy hotel, I got that down pat!
 

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Looks like I got hired at a mid level department store in the mall (with many different departments) It's just seasonal and you do alot of everything (stock, cleaning up, work the register). It's a little emasculating but there are some hotties that work there.
Congrats, this may turn out extremely well for you with these female coworkers!
 

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Just looking to make a couple extra hundred dollars a month.

Already applied: Home Depot, Lowe's, Boscovs, Burlington Stores, Big Lots, ****s Sporting Goods

Don't want: Starbucks Barista, waiter or bartender

I am in my early 40's. Any other ideas?
Home depot and lowes..boscovs is so is so. Burlinton coat factory and big lots customers have nothing but hoodrats shopping there( unless thats what youre aiming for) I thought d*cks was out of business? Anyway at least with home depot and lowes its considered a "manly" job. ( as crazy as it sounds) but you can show a woman an item in your section and chat with her for long as you want because it looks like you are helping the customer.
 

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movie theatre usher, fast food delivery, uber/lyft driver, drivethru worker, full serve gas station pumper, gym front counter, wallyworld frontdoor greeter, bank teller, low risk security guard at doors like grocery stores.

Any position that puts you physically in front of a high volume of female traffic that also has a few free moments to chat them up as they are somewhat trapped into at least responding politely to you.
Movie thearter usher? Drive thru worker? Gas station pumper? Rent-a-cop at a supermarket wearing a wanna be cop unform? Im sorry thats not gonna work. No woman is gonna take a 40 something year old man serious unless he has super serious game...just my 2 cents.
 
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