good dilemma

[wt_firefighter]

I started classes again after winter break and their is this cute girl who is in two of my classes. I talked to her and we seem to have a lot in common. The thing is that I will see her Monday through Thursday, which seems like a lot of time with no break. There is little time to try and create any mystery about me. I also don't know if I should game her in the next couple of weeks or wait until later in the semester and risk the friend zone. Any suggestion?

 

[alphamailman]

Try to keep your distance and minimize volunteering excessive information to her. Especially unwarranted information sharing. I'd game her early though.

 

[Gunner26]

Me and a friend are in the same situation. On both of our courses are girls that we like the look of. Get a little bit of rapport going in lectures, enough that you can say 'Hi' comfortably just passing eachother on campus.

Then leave the conversations for when you see them on a night out. It's a much more social atmosphere than class. Also much easier to escalate quickly.

You will be seeing her Monday through Thursday, this does not mean you have to sit with her as well. Have you got any other friends in the same classes? If you do sit with them and as alpha said generally just try to keep your distance.

Strike early and outside of class, I've found that talking with girls in class is a quick way to friendsville.

Gunner

 

[Plutoman]

Game early. Always. Quickly progress, ask her out within the first 2-3 weeks after building a small connection, always maintain an alpha stance. If she chooses, let HER come sit next to you. If she's over 21, ask her to come join you for drinks. If she's under 21, ask her to join you at a party, or ask her to get out and do some activity with you.

Went through this last semester. Made other mistakes, but meh. That part went well.

Oh, and the exception to the sitting part is if you walked into class in the first class or two and immediately sat near the cute girl(s) in the class. Simpler way to start now.

 

[wt_firefighter]

Thanks for the advice fellas. I am definitely not going to sit next to her everyday. There are other cute girls in the class that I plan on gaming as well.

 

[Plutoman]

If you started sitting next to her at the beginning of the semester - work it, man, don't bother moving. Just, if it is not that way now, don't move for her sake, let her move for you.

Future reference; at the start of a semester, sit near the hot/cute girls right in the first class or two. Start up conversations with everyone around you (which includes them). Game them, go for it early within the first 2-3 weeks minimum. Sooner if you get a fast connection.