Giving/Taking Advice from Strangers: Why?

[Stuffnu]

I don't think the female perspective helps at all here.

And did you mean can't get off her pedestal?

Sounds like you fear a women’s perspective. Didn’t say you had to agree with it.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

 

[joesbigship]

All the white knights taking up for granny....taking a page out of biggoal's game strategy!

 

[joesbigship]

Tells you everything you need to know right there: white knights simpin' for granny but they are repulsed by hot blonde 18 year olds lol.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Tells you everything you need to know right there: white knights simpin' for granny but they are repulsed by hot blonde 18 year olds lol.

Best post ever.

 

[Stuffnu]

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I don't respect some delusional granny who thinks she's a "perfect 10" and talks in every post about how amazing she thinks she is. How ridiculous can you get?

Her confidence has nothing to do with age. Yes many girls, especially with the empowerment of OLD’s have elevated there self worth. You look at it as delusional, I look at it as a challenge. Whether they are 18 or 50, You‘re approach should be the same - Understand them and then conquer.
Go get ‘em.

 

[BeExcellent]

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Her confidence has nothing to do with age. Yes many girls, especially with the empowerment of OLD’s have elevated there self worth. You look at it as delusional, I look at it as a challenge. Whether they are 18 or 50, You‘re approach should be the same - Understand them and then conquer.
Go get ‘em.

Props. I do not care what people think of me. I post real unretouched photos of me as an avatar and always have. My two cents can be taken or left. It’s there for the consideration and that’s all.

Does not affect my life in the slightest.

Friendly jab accepted

Cheers

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Props. I do not care what people think of me. I post real unretouched photos of me as an avatar and always have. My two cents can be taken or left. It’s there for the consideration and that’s all.

Does not affect my life in the slightest.

Friendly jab accepted

Cheers

How can you honestly say that that photo is "unretouched." You're wearing loads of makeup, have it taken from a carefully selected angle where you think you look the best, and that's not even to mention hair dye and things like that.

Even the fact that it says "proof" in it shows that the photo has been changed in some way.

You are most likely so dishonest that you even lie to yourself.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

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Her confidence has nothing to do with age. Yes many girls, especially with the empowerment of OLD’s have elevated there self worth. You look at it as delusional, I look at it as a challenge. Whether they are 18 or 50, You‘re approach should be the same - Understand them and then conquer.
Go get ‘em.

It can't be a real challenge if they aren't operating in reality. If you want to waste your time and energy dealing with narcissistic delusional little wannabe princesses, then have at it. I have more important and real things to do.

And for the record, the above paragraph was not referring to anyone on this site. It was talking about the Instagram type of girls that we all see these days. I feel necessary to clarify this so I don't risk getting banned.

 

[joesbigship]

Typically, people will sift through a dozen or several dozens of photos for the best photo to post on social media. It's all a crap shoot based on lighting, angle, clothing, as you keep trying over and over to present your 'best' self.

Then it goes through the ringer with digital editing. That's assuming the photo is anywhere near recent, which very often it isn't.

As I said before, I've seen photos of older women who edit out facial wrinkles but leave all of the wrinkles on their neck untouched.

Some hot women take the worst photos and some of the least attractive can take great photos with sufficient editing, right angle, etc.

You just don't know what someone looks like until they're staring you in the face.

 

[BeExcellent]

How can you honestly say that that photo is "unretouched." You're wearing loads of makeup, have it taken from a carefully selected angle where you think you look the best, and that's not even to mention hair dye and things like that.

Even the fact that it says "proof" in it shows that the photo has been changed in some way.

You are most likely so dishonest that you even lie to yourself.

It says “Proof” because in photography parlance that means unretouched and unfinished. I choose photos that are not direct of my face to maintain privacy. They are photos that appear nowhere else online (unless someone here swiped them)…It is obvious that my body is slender & fit in that photo (I’m a size 0 to 2), and that my hair is very long. I don’t dye my hair other than a few wisps in front to brighten around my face. That is my natural hair (no extensions), my natural physique (no surgery), and those are my own clothes & jewelry. Natural hair is lighter on top where it has sun exposure and darker underneath. I turn heads without any make up. I look better (as far as face, hair & body) than many women half my age. I look extraordinary for someone who is 50+. I know that. I avoid the sun and eat keto/clean & work out. I also get enough sleep and do not get easily stressed. All things that help to have a youthful appearance as I age.

I am much prettier in real life than in photos (shrugs).

Men hit on me All. The. Time.

I had lunch with property developers today, one of whom makes no bones about his interest in me if I would entertain him (I won’t because I am taken), and at the car repair shop this afternoon another man-the owner-offered that I attend his performance (he’s a musician & singer as well) in a couple of weeks. These are both handsome, successful businessmen. I’m taken. It doesn’t matter. All I have to do is leave my house. Literally. Men try and open me in subtle or not so subtle ways All. The. Time. That’s my landscape. So my role, as a loyal GF is to be polite but reject these advances. That’s my day to day.

Shame that my reality bothers you so much. I don’t care whether you believe me. I find it interesting and amusing even that you are as consumed about this as you are. It’s fascinating.

But seriously let’s not get sidetracked about me again. This is a good community if you apply the salient advice (Hint: Use the search function ).

Cheers

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

It says “Proof” because in photography parlance that means unretouched and unfinished. I choose photos that are not direct of my face to maintain privacy. They are photos that appear nowhere else online (unless someone here swiped them)…It is obvious that my body is slender & fit in that photo (I’m a size 0 to 2), and that my hair is very long. I don’t dye my hair other than a few wisps in front to brighten around my face. That is my natural hair (no extensions), my natural physique (no surgery), and those are my own clothes & jewelry. Natural hair is lighter on top where it has sun exposure and darker underneath. I turn heads without any make up. I look better (as far as face, hair & body) than many women half my age. I look extraordinary for someone who is 50+. I know that. I avoid the sun and eat keto/clean & work out. I also get enough sleep and do not get easily stressed. All things that help to have a youthful appearance as I age.

I am much prettier in real life than in photos (shrugs).

Men hit on me All. The. Time.

I had lunch with property developers today, one of whom makes no bones about his interest in me if I would entertain him (I won’t because I am taken), and at the car repair shop this afternoon another man-the owner-offered that I attend his performance (he’s a musician & singer as well) in a couple of weeks. These are both handsome, successful businessmen. I’m taken. It doesn’t matter. All I have to do is leave my house. Literally. Men try and open me in subtle or not so subtle ways All. The. Time. That’s my landscape. So my role, as a loyal GF is to be polite but reject these advances. That’s my day to day.

Shame that my reality bothers you so much. I don’t care whether you believe me. I find it interesting and amusing even that you are as consumed about this as you are. It’s fascinating.

But seriously let’s not get sidetracked about me again. This is a good community if you apply the salient advice (Hint: Use the search function ).

Cheers

This happens to every girl as long as they're not hideous. It's not just you.

But a pretentious personality ruins any looks a girl can have.

I would be willing to bet that you don't look attractive without makeup on. You didn't even attempt to deny the fact that you're wearing lots of makeup there. Even male transvestites can make themselves look like hot girls with makeup, so what's your point?

I care if it's in front of me because your narcissism is off the fvcking chain.

I just got warned I might get banned for something I said in this thread. For what? Arguing with a female?

 

[metalwater]

We all get this is an entertainment board, it's not a source of actual, legitimate advice (or at least we should be aware of this). Even when people do "ask" for advice they typically have their minds made up, post a couple likes for people who confirm their initial bias or decision, and that's that.

For me, and probably for almost all of us, the discussions are simply for fun, a nice diversion to take a few breaks here and there throughout the week.

But is there any actual valid advice that's even possible even if we were to take the forum seriously? After all, we don't have photos, have never met these people, and have no basis for judging whether the posts are pure fantasy or legit?

Even with photos, it's easy to edit, shoop or choose a particularly flattering one which is not necessarily representative of what they actually look like.

advice is something we get or give. it is information and ideas or suggestions about some topic or situation. the advice can be good, bad, silly, and so on. the point is to have another perspective about the topic. SS does a good job of that.

for some SS is the first introduction to pill theory about gender dynamics. Blue, Red, Black, and so on...

-are there angry men that just lash out at others, yes...
-are there damaged men looking for hope, yes...
-are there decent men helping others, maybe...
-men that just bytch about everything.. yes
-men that try to lead, yes
-men that try to dominate by criticizing others, yes...

teach your theory and constructively criticize the wrong ones with respect. if someone attacks you personally, let them have it full force. If they disagree with you find out why.

 

[metalwater]

I'm honestly not impressed with the "advice" here. A person would have to be extremely inexperienced in life to get much from here. Or just extremely naive. It's mostly chest thumping delusions.

I'm not saying that I have anything against the individuals here, but as a collective, I don't find this place as much of a source of wisdom.

so start threads and teach the right way, with respect. lead by example.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

so start threads and teach the right way, with respect. lead by example.

I just talk about getting hookers haha

But I bet I've been with more hot girls than anyone here.

 

[metalwater]

I just talk about getting hookers haha

But I bet I've been with more hot girls than anyone here.

that topic is ok and good for this board. just no need to tell others that they are idiots for a different choice. but do tell the value of the pay for play. after all, it's the oldest business ever. I guess every guy by some age has tried it.

also no need to go after the few women that post. either ignore them or listen. they tell girl stuff and if reading between the lines confirms most of the red pill theory. no need to call them out, just see what they say. it's funny.

every woman is a hooker... you just focus on a short time instead of a long game. It's all perspective..

we have some guys telling us how the girl really wants them. it's still transactional because she wants the tingles and doesn't care who gives them. The guy learns how to do that, but there is no "she has my best interest at heart" she always has her best interest. the point is that hookers are fine, after all, they need to eat, and without customers, for them, we would have more unemployed ppl to feed. You're just another part of the ecosystem as am I.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

that topic is ok and good for this board. just no need to tell others that they are idiots for a different choice. but do tell the value of the pay for play. after all, it's the oldest business ever. I guess every guy by some age has tried it.

also no need to go after the few women that post. either ignore them or listen. they tell girl stuff and if reading between the lines confirms most of the red pill theory. no need to call them out, just see what they say. it's funny.

every woman is a hooker... you just focus on a short time instead of a long game. It's all perspective..

we have some guys telling us how the girl really wants them. it's still transactional because she wants the tingles and doesn't care who gives them. The guy learns how to do that, but there is no "she has my best interest at heart" she always has her best interest. the point is that hookers are fine, after all, they need to eat, and without customers, for them, we would have more unemployed ppl to feed. You're just another part of the ecosystem as am I.

I'm probably about to get perma-banned anyway.

Nothing irritates me more than female narcissism.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

There needs to be a private, invite only sub forum for verified players only. There are way too many semi-incel and MGTOW posters here who spew garbage like "I am the prize!", "never co-habitate!", "The wall!" and other "redpill" bullchit.

There is....Guess you weren't invited....

Hard to be in 2 places at once, seriously you having conversations with yourself between Alts is one of the most cringe things I've ever saw on a board, you are exactly who OP is talking about

 

[DonJuanjr]

I'm probably about to get perma-banned anyway.

I would hope not. You were not attacking the female posters the way pan attacks posters on here. Look what it took for him to get temp banned.. Not that I agree with it. I don't think female posters should get any special treatment on this site.

 

[Atom Smasher]

…..Especially on a public forum that I will agree with you that some posters here I don't believe are half as successful with women as they act like. But I actually think there is a good percentage of guys here, generally the guys that have been here for a bit, who know what they are talking about and offer pretty solid advice on women (and life experience in general.

Hey, wait a minute... I’m definitely half as successful with women as I act like.

 

[BeExcellent]

Respectfully I do not need “special treatment”. I have used my report button a sum total of twice in my tenure here and I do not get offended easily or often.

Men have always approached me irrespective of makeup. One man who I dated for a year in NYC insisted that I wear none whilst we were out. He thought my face was better without it. He is a well esteemed cosmetic dentist on faculty at a major teaching institution and had numerous patients who were professional fashion models. He knows beautiful women. We remain friends even now years later.

Everyone has their own goals and objectives with women. I do not care nor judge if someone chooses to pay escorts for their services. I will say however that paying escorts is a very different animal than organically meeting and garnering women’s interest. My friends who are really good at meeting & seducing women pride themselves on never needing to pay for intimate experience. It’s too easy, to transactional and too contrived for them.

The woman is obligated and this makes the encounter predictable and boring. So they’d rather hunt their prey in the wild if you will and enjoy the uncertainty of it along with savoring success.

But to each his own sexual strategy. Part of the issue with pay to play is that a man will start to think all women are like escorts. They aren’t. Period. So your attitude is unsurprising if not unexpected.