Sounds like you fear a women’s perspective. Didn’t say you had to agree with it.I don't think the female perspective helps at all here.
And did you mean can't get off her pedestal?
“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”