Master Don Juan
- Apr 9, 2021
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Texting is huge connection-building tool for me too. OP is being distant both over text and in-person. And being incongruent by leading with a shirtless Tinder pic and not being sexual enough afterwards.I'd advise you to stop having rigid rules and going by what everyone else said.
Following the only text to set up a date rule got me a bunch of flakes and not many dates. Once I started using my texting skills to my advantage is when I started having a lot more success in terms of dates, lays, plates and LTRs when I wanted them.
If something isn't working for you it's up to you to change it. I'm not sure where the issue is on your part is but you need to do a deep dive on these interactions and figure it out. Look for commonalities in these interactions.
Where do you feel the interaction starts going the wrong way? If I had to guess you are doing something in person that is turning them off to you.