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EyeOnThePrize

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I think the first question to ones self should be “is how I’m about to/did I act rooted in self respect?” If yes, proceed to do whatever that is.
the idea of beta - highly ambiguous and subjective - is sacrificing ones own respect for the woman. Patience and understanding isn’t beta. It’s strength and ‘alpha’ if we need labels for clarity. However, if that understanding and patience leads to resentment, then it was never giving value in the first place, It was given in with the expectation of needed reciprocity.

Self respect first. Everything follows from there.
That seems like a different way to say the same thing. I guess it's self respect and accountability, owning every decision.
 

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That seems like a different way to say the same thing. I guess it's self respect and accountability, owning every decision.
That’s all we can really shoot for. Total awareness that we are honouring ourselves and are with someone who values us. But Alpha and Beta are really irrelevant terms as one can be shades of both in various avenues of their own life.
 

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That’s all we can really shoot for. Total awareness that we are honouring ourselves and are with someone who values us. But Alpha and Beta are really irrelevant terms as one can be shades of both in various avenues of their own life.
Could not agree more.

You want someone who will learn to see the word as you do and not the other way.
If something does not feel right to you it does not matter what other thing you follow your instinct


IMO Alpha and Beta is BS you respect yourself and do whats best for you and you will never be a AFC/Beta its that simple.
 
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