you guys are a bunch of douchebags...man stop worrying about why she cried. be a freaking man here. Talk to her and ask her what she was feeling and shut up and let her talk. You don't know the reason so stop listening to all this speculation. I've known women who cried after sex because it was just great sex, or because they have a lot going on and they need the emotional release, or they lost a love one and just wanted to feel alive and release some emotion. So don't assume the worst. Don't apologize for jack **** unless she tells you she felt violated in anyway. be a normal person and talk to her and listen and ignore all these people in this thread with their naysaying. Watch, listen and learn and react accordingly. Christ people...good luck.