Master Don Juan
- Feb 3, 2021
- Reaction score
- Bend, OR
I think that's pretty case by case. To me, it is a red flag and speaks to her mindset as @catsmeow stated.I was just wondering if guys usually kept seeing the girl or if it would be smarter to just be like “nope, fvck this, I’m getting out NOW before it goes further because I know she’s going back to him eventually.”
Is it a deal-breaker?
That is ultimately such a personal decision. Because while others might find it disrespectful and distasteful to attempt to arise jealousy in you and decide to move on (and rightfully so as no one has time for someone playing games), some might find it simply immature and not pay too much attention. I do think you have to take other characteristics about her into consideration and make a decision holistically.
To simply walk away in the fear that she will dump you because she can potentially get back to him will only speak volumes about your character and mindset. It speaks, at least for me, weak. But to walk away because you value your time and have really high standards in your life is highly respectable and honorable. So it really depends on your true reason for walking away.
Her ultimate goal is to trigger a reaction, your path as a man is to walk the Earth unfazed by others' actions knowing your ultimate purpose and direction. Do not give her what she is ultimately childishly trying to accomplish.
Hope this helps.
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