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This is true. I have never understood this fetish.
It's not for you or I to understand. Most fetishes are an emotional reaction that cannot be rationalised.
 

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Late 20’s friend. He has two young kids. is married. His wife has cheated on him 4 times now. He excused it with ‘well cheating is normal for girls her age (mid-20’s). He is staying with her.
Is this the ultimate cuckery?
Maybe but its a glimpse into 2030
 

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Some guys have cuckold fetishes. Maybe it turns him on, but he's not telling you because he doesn't want to go public with his fetish.
Yea but why is he telling his buddy if its a fetish? Sounds like hes in-between.
If he goes this route he better like it
 

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Yea but why is he telling his buddy if its a fetish?
Because he wants to share. One of the more difficult things of having a fetish is the loneliness of feeling like you're the only one with that particular fetish. Especially if the fetish is 'shameful' like cuckoldry or crossdressing or wearing diapers. Everybody wants to be accepted.
 

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Because he wants to share. One of the more difficult things of having a fetish is the loneliness of feeling like you're the only one with that particular fetish. Especially if the fetish is 'shameful' like cuckoldry or crossdressing or wearing diapers. Everybody wants to be accepted.
Yea I get it but he doesn't sound very bright. He can research this online. And their are research books out there.
Fetishism of all kinds are suppressed and more common then we know.

The thing is from one person , couple to another their preference might be crazy to you yours could be just as weird to them.
I have a buddy that has this feet and toes thing going on and I think its pretty strange but I get it.
Mine is probably just as weird.
 

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I'm not sure the takeaway from the story as presented is cuckoldry. I think the guy is simply a beta who married a hoe and had kids with her and sees no exit strategy and thus simply suffers and endures.
 

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I'm not sure the takeaway from the story as presented is cuckoldry. I think the guy is simply a beta who married a hoe and had kids with her and sees no exit strategy and thus simply suffers and endures.
He is VERY insecure. He’s probably a 5.5 normie.
 

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They live in a small town. the secret is out.
He is VERY insecure. He’s probably a 5.5 normie.
It would be very difficult for a 5.5 normie guy to get laid/get a new girlfriend in a smaller town with a population of less than 150,000. The only way a 5.5 looks scale beta is doing that is from his social circle.

In a major metropolitan area, a 5.5 normie guy will still struggle, but there's at least more quantity of options out there. Quantity of options would likely allow for him to dumpster dive with a 3 in a more populated area via swipe app.
 

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It would be very difficult for a 5.5 normie guy to get laid/get a new girlfriend in a smaller town with a population of less than 150,000. The only way a 5.5 looks scale beta is doing that is from his social circle.

In a major metropolitan area, a 5.5 normie guy will still struggle, but there's at least more quantity of options out there. Quantity of options would likely allow for him to dumpster dive with a 3 in a more populated area via swipe app.
15,000 in the entire county.
 

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15,000 in the entire county.
That's not nearly enough of a population base for a man 25+ to date effectively. I generally think that a man 25+ (generally post-college age and beyond) needs a local area population of 150,000+ to date effectively. Every area is different.

I have seen examples of men getting laid in USA counties with population sizes in the 50,000 - 99,999 range. It's not impossible, but it's more difficult.

I generally recommend men in areas under 150,000 to move to an area larger than 150,000.

I've also seen examples of areas with populations of 300,000 - 799,999 where dating was challenging.

There was a discussion in this forum in July about Albuquerque, New Mexico (area population low 700,000s) and how it might be challenging to date in Albuquerque. Albuquerque has sufficient quantity of population but would likely have quality issues for a lot of people trying to date there.

 

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Late 20’s friend. He has two young kids. is married. His wife has cheated on him 4 times now. He excused it with ‘well cheating is normal for girls her age (mid-20’s). He is staying with her.
Is this the ultimate cuckery?
He likely feels she is the best he can do.
 

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Just learned even more crazy stuff. This last (4th) cheat time. He kicked her out & she was fine with that. She drove to Tyrone’s (the guy she’d been banging this time) house & planned to move in with him. She got there. But he had another girl over. So she drove back to her husband, told him. And he let her stay.
 

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Just learned even more crazy stuff. This last (4th) cheat time. He kicked her out & she was fine with that. She drove to Tyrone’s (the guy she’d been banging this time) house & planned to move in with him. She got there. But he had another girl over. So she drove back to her husband, told him. And he let her stay.
Gigacuck!
 

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So she drove back to her husband, told him. And he let her stay.
Yep, cuckold.
If he allows himself to be used as a doormat, he shouldn't complain about people wiping their feet on him.
 

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Some guys have to fall REALLY far before they see the light. The fact that he at least tried to kick her out might eventually mean that he'll find his balls. Damn though. I can't even imagine their home life at this point.
 
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