Gf going on multiple dates/meetings

[crikeyhanky]

No bro, CLEARLY you are

Unfollow this thread before you waste anymore of your time @crikeyhanky

It's ok dude, I'm taking some time off.
Thanks for caring.

 

[crikeyhanky]

Wow! 40 and still act like a teenager.

Yep I know. Ridiculous!

 

[Dr.Suave]

This relationship is done. You should monkeybranch to a younger and hotter girl.

 

[Canadian_Man]

She met him on Tinder.

She's on Tinder.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Perfectly said man! Thanks a lot.
It does bother me at the moment.

Then sit with it for a second. Ask yourself why, reflect on yourself and your security and insecurities, try and see any positive attributes in your situation together and whether those can exist and overcome your concerns. If need be talk to a counselor. Do your best to see the situation as it actually is and then move forward with confidence.

 

[All_Kindz_Of_Gainz]

I did that last week. Spent the night at the college students' place, ****ed her brains out & didn't tell her a thing. Put the phone in DND. She called the next morning worried. It was payback. It felt good & I feel no remorse.

You got some major issues to heal, even though you cheated on her again, you don't have the balls to send her packing.

I imagine you telling her "Hey no more coming late at night unless you tell me okay?" Do you really think that will prevent her drom cheating on you assuming she hasn't done it yet?

If you're so tough as you say you are, you will be like "I know you're seeing this guy and have gone to dates with him, wish you the best as I'm seeing someone else too" But we all know you can't be in a healthy relationship cause you have unresolved issues.

 

[johnrambo]

I did that last week. Spent the night at the college students' place, ****ed her brains out & didn't tell her a thing. Put the phone in DND. She called the next morning worried. It was payback. It felt good & I feel no remorse.

Is this real? You gamed a college student and still want your 40 yo cheater around. Replace the cheater with the college student. Is the college student fat or something?

 

[MixedMutt00]

@Manure Spherian isn't the whole thread?

 

[retardedautist2020]

I tend to believe her that no sexual activity took place

Bruh are you retarded?

 

[crikeyhanky]

@Manure Spherian isn't the whole thread?

I live a strange life

 

[crikeyhanky]

Is this real? You gamed a college student and still want your 40 yo cheater around. Replace the cheater with the college student. Is the college student fat or something?

I don't want her around. I am evaluating the situation.

 

[crikeyhanky]

You got some major issues to heal, even though you cheated on her again, you don't have the balls to send her packing.

I imagine you telling her "Hey no more coming late at night unless you tell me okay?" Do you really think that will prevent her drom cheating on you assuming she hasn't done it yet?

If you're so tough as you say you are, you will be like "I know you're seeing this guy and have gone to dates with him, wish you the best as I'm seeing someone else too" But we all know you can't be in a healthy relationship cause you have unresolved issues.

I am evaluating the situation

 

[johnrambo]

I don't want her around. I am evaluating the situation.

No need to evaluate, Man! 40 yo is post-Wall. College student is 18-23 yo. Even if she's a little fat, she has higher SMV than a 40 yo.

 

[crikeyhanky]

No need to evaluate, Man! 40 yo is post-Wall. College student is 18-23 yo. Even if she's a little fat, she has higher SMV than a 40 yo.

Noted! Thanks for the engagement

 

[crikeyhanky]

This relationship is done. You should monkeybranch to a younger and hotter girl.

Noted! Thanks for your reply

 

[crikeyhanky]

Bruh are you retarded?

Maybe...

 

[johnrambo]

Noted! Thanks for the engagement

You are welcome! I had a situation like that....very indecisive when I should have kicked the b**ch to the curb long ago. Hesitated for too long. It is the biggest regret of my life. When in doubt, kick her out!

 

[Divorced w 3]

You are welcome! I had a situation like that....very indecisive when I should have kicked the b**ch to the curb long ago. Hesitated for too long. It is the biggest regret of my life. When in doubt, kick her out!

This is the type of advice that has you end up at age 40 sending money to the Philippines and Skyping 10x a day

 

[johnrambo]

This is the type of advice that has you end up at age 40 sending money to the Philippines and Skyping 10x a day

What do you suggest? Girl is on tinder already. Not if but when is OP's girl is gonna dump him? In that situation, dump before gets dumped!

 

[crikeyhanky]

What do you suggest? Girl is on tinder already. Not if but when is OP's girl is gonna dump him? In that situation, dump before gets dumped!

Yes. She put one photo on Tinder from a distance , in which she has her back to the camera in winter clothing. No face shown. Ofc I found quite a few conversations with guys that she matched with & with this particular guy, although not as good looking as me, she initiated the convo and was quite talkative. This was in late April.
At one point he wrote his phone number & told her he prefers Whatsapp.
Shortly after the convos picked up on WA right around my birthday May 20th.
There were gaps of several days at first, one time she reached out after a 5 day pause or so. Most of July the convos were frequent. Almost daily at one point.
Like I said, everything civilised at first glance. She actually made one joke with a sexual conotation and he called her out on it. He travels a lot with work from what he writes and is living in my city up until October at least.
They exchanged selfies & pictures of their grandparents oddly enough. He sent her a few links to videos of subjects that she's interested in and of a dog that wandered in his workspace. One time she wrote that he is making her anxious about working on a construction site during not so great weather. She is an anxious person.
Also a couple of live locations and travel directions.
He asked her out at a fancy restaurant for the first meeting. Never did either of them write the word "date". The overall vibe is that of a friendship or maybe a slow start to a possible relationship.