Because women disguise their mooching as “friendship”. From the story I gathered she wasn’t the only guy she was doing this with or had ever done this with. And they always start out small (30-50) and hit you up regularly and it adds up. My guy friends never ask me for money or favors. Never. Women are known for doing this with their “friends” though. Well known for it.Friends don't ask you for money. So why did he think she was his friend to begin with?