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That's a good way of looking at it, in my opinion. By that same token, if you find a good friend, it's rare.Friends come and go in your life. Enjoy them while they are there. You lose one, you get a new one.
Same thing applies to the women that come and go. Nothing lasts forever, life is fluid.
Yes. That's one reason why friends disappear as we grow, we prefer to live and spend our lives how we choose, and it may or may not include old friends.I've found myself lately not wanting to see my friends.
I don't hate people or talking but I'm happier on my own, alone.
Definitely friends. I don't really socialize beyond that. I hate casual drinks. I do office small talk for my own purposes. But anyway, lately my friends have simply felt like associates. Maybe it's because our lives have more direction and there's more focus, but I don't want to sit around talking about it.Friends? Or associates?
I frequently hang out, drink with, ride, camp with, work thru issues with (investment advice, motorcycle repair, or kids playing, coordinating, etc) many people, both men and women. Usually there's something being done or a shared activity.
Most of these are associates. Some I've known for many, many years.
Friends? 6, 8 max and I'm 50. Only one or two I see frequently.
Difference? Trust. My friends have my best interest at heart and I theirs. Some of my associates are more entertaining than some friends but the trust isn't there or hasn't been demonstrated thru opportunity, no fault of their own.
I do agree with one of the posters about being alone. Some of my best travels, hikes, rides, flights have been alone. I have no longing for company, but have an abundance of it when wanted.
Quite a dilemma, eh? The less you need people around, the more want to be around.