Social Engineering
Don Juan
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Little Background.
Ive been to a few clubs but it was with a gf of over a year at the time. Not bad, just not my scene and most of the time we would just cuddle and sit in chairs or she would occasionally dance. I never really had to get up. Her friends would just come to us.
Just got out of a 9 mo relationship with a different girl. We spent most of the time at my apartment. So trying to get over the Oneitis ive been having. My friends invited me out. Now i have 0 trouble getting girls. From work, to online, through friends, or just out in general i can land it. Hell once i was taking a train to NYC and cold approached a girl hit it off well and 3 weeks later i was hitting it on a daily basis. Total stranger. In the club I have horrible game. It was an entire different world for me.
Clubs are not my scene. I work, and my passion is bodybuilding. Anything else is butter. I went out because i didnt wanna sit at home, mope and think about the ex all night alone. I had no intention of trying to get girls. Wich could be part of the problem. I didnt expect to get ass nor would i take any from clubrats. I won't find anything serious out of a club nor would i want to. **** i go to work and she goes to the club cuz i cant come? **** that don't have time for a girl like that nor will i put up with one.
But i wanted to practice. I could go my entire life by getting ass through other ways but i wanted a challenge. A Challenge i got. Its an art i would like to learn.
So again like i said, i wasnt trying to make out with any club girls, take any home with me for the night, i just wanted to game them.....I love a good chase. Im the PRIZE.
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The club, never been to it. Apparently its goth/industrial night, with a Pirate theme. (sounds tackey but it was awsome). I get there 2-3 hours after its open show up alone. And try to locate the friends that invited me. From the Second i got checked by the bouncer to walking in. I held my head up high kept my eyes straight and pretended it was my kingdom. People looked, saw and i made no eye contact. Walked around, the bar, the floor, the outside patio, and pretty much covered all ground just scoping it out solo. Not bad, i locate my friends at the bar doing shots. I get introduced to 2-3 girls there with and then. Its like a record scratching i just had no game.
I felt alienated, and like i didnt belong. Everyones chatting it up and im just standing there. I planned on not drinking to keep a clear head. I figure **** it, liquid courage right, 1..... 2..... 3.... ok now feeling something. Get more relaxed but still i didnt even care. There were ALOT of attractive ladies. Def not my music, or my scene. (more into the hardcore and these were goth kids.. like my "nemesis").
My wing man was a friend of mine from highschool so he was cool and hes gone there a few showed me around introduced me to some people. Wich was handy if i went alone i prob would have walked out and left. Ran into a coworker who also was cool to chill with. Kinda social proof so i wasnt just sitting at the bar or against a wall somewhere i was smiling, and kept my head up. To everyone else it looked like i was having a great time.
The entire night girls were putting themselves in my area, or making eye contact. I dont know how many times my eyes locked with a girl, for me to only look away like i was not interested. Everyone i was with figured i would be macking it with the ladies. Nadda. I was like rejecting everyone. They were attractive, i was actually surprised at the lack of fat chicks, the fat *****y ones.
Remeber going to the bar getting another drink, and this girl from all the way across was with a few friends. She locked eyes with me, i kept in contact then i look away. I look back up shes still looking. I look away repeat then i just walk away. Owned? Her or myself... i didnt smile nod or walk over to give an introduction.
I did to a few people but after that i felt alienated and out of place.
My wingman noticed i was just hovering. Introduced me to this girl, pretty much hand fed her to me. She showed general interest. Then he says "oh man i ll be back in a min gotta use the restroom" He disapears and just leaves me and her alone to chat. I talked for a few then i dont know what the hell i was doing. When there was a silent pause.. i just started to look around the room. One of her friends came over to talk to us and i used it as an exit and kinda walked away.
I said **** it enjoyed the music enjoyed the drinks and just hung out with the friends. I wasnt afraid to be alone if everyone else went outside i was fine with standing there by myself just enjoying the scene.
The entire time... my oneitis was gone, so distracted i almost couldnt remeber my ex's name...i didnt care what she was doing... it was like i never met her. Out of sight out of mind. If i stayed home i would of spent the night figuring out a way to talk to her, email her or something afc'ish.
I definatly wanst a social outcast. There were events and **** going on. Since it was Pirate night they had a plank and had people walk it without falling for prizes and everyone gathered around to watch. It was late in the evening everyone was drunk, i had a good buzz. They would blind fold you, spin you around and you would try to walk it. I managed to get up there, get the crowd going (some girl let me borrow her ninja mask i looked like sub zero from mortal kombat). Everyone else just tried to cross it no one got creative. I somehow managed to do a 360 on the plank, people clapped then a front 180 flip of some sort, i landed it. No idea how. Was cheered and enjoyed the rest of the night.
At one point im hanging with my wingman and he noticed a girl that was checking me out. I didnt look back. Then she put herself like 2-3 ft from me. He even said really loud "dude that girls been looking you up and down for 10 min now go talk to her" she heard... i looked back she smiled... i just went back to talking to my friend. Blew her off.
The girl that let me borrow her ninja mask. Came to get it she was leaving soon prob the best opportunity to number close. Talked to her for a few felt more comfortable. She asked me where i learned to flip like that. I said "Sekret ninja powers" got her giggling. Told her it was my first time to this club. Asked about how the scene is here etc. She mentioned how nothing but skinny boys come through the door.. and then said im jacked . Then she pretty much tried to feel me up. I pretended i didnt hear her and got her to repeat it. I obviously get off on compliments considering how i bust my ass in the gym like its my job. Gave her a hug said i had a great time and she hoped to see me again. HOLY S H I T SON weak game. I saw nerds that prob read this very forum. Isolating girls and def setting up to hit it later in the evening. And here i am... with nothing, no game. I sucked.
Had an awsome time though, sobered up near the end and called it a night and went home.
The end.
I got invited to go out next week same place i may go. I would like to get cold pickups in club or just be a little more active. I have nothing in the club. Still the entire night I walked around like i owned the place but no ladies. I even got a few compliments and some girl pinched my ass. They probably all thought i was gay or something
W T F is wrong with my Brain?
Ive been to a few clubs but it was with a gf of over a year at the time. Not bad, just not my scene and most of the time we would just cuddle and sit in chairs or she would occasionally dance. I never really had to get up. Her friends would just come to us.
Just got out of a 9 mo relationship with a different girl. We spent most of the time at my apartment. So trying to get over the Oneitis ive been having. My friends invited me out. Now i have 0 trouble getting girls. From work, to online, through friends, or just out in general i can land it. Hell once i was taking a train to NYC and cold approached a girl hit it off well and 3 weeks later i was hitting it on a daily basis. Total stranger. In the club I have horrible game. It was an entire different world for me.
Clubs are not my scene. I work, and my passion is bodybuilding. Anything else is butter. I went out because i didnt wanna sit at home, mope and think about the ex all night alone. I had no intention of trying to get girls. Wich could be part of the problem. I didnt expect to get ass nor would i take any from clubrats. I won't find anything serious out of a club nor would i want to. **** i go to work and she goes to the club cuz i cant come? **** that don't have time for a girl like that nor will i put up with one.
But i wanted to practice. I could go my entire life by getting ass through other ways but i wanted a challenge. A Challenge i got. Its an art i would like to learn.
So again like i said, i wasnt trying to make out with any club girls, take any home with me for the night, i just wanted to game them.....I love a good chase. Im the PRIZE.
--------------
The club, never been to it. Apparently its goth/industrial night, with a Pirate theme. (sounds tackey but it was awsome). I get there 2-3 hours after its open show up alone. And try to locate the friends that invited me. From the Second i got checked by the bouncer to walking in. I held my head up high kept my eyes straight and pretended it was my kingdom. People looked, saw and i made no eye contact. Walked around, the bar, the floor, the outside patio, and pretty much covered all ground just scoping it out solo. Not bad, i locate my friends at the bar doing shots. I get introduced to 2-3 girls there with and then. Its like a record scratching i just had no game.
I felt alienated, and like i didnt belong. Everyones chatting it up and im just standing there. I planned on not drinking to keep a clear head. I figure **** it, liquid courage right, 1..... 2..... 3.... ok now feeling something. Get more relaxed but still i didnt even care. There were ALOT of attractive ladies. Def not my music, or my scene. (more into the hardcore and these were goth kids.. like my "nemesis").
My wing man was a friend of mine from highschool so he was cool and hes gone there a few showed me around introduced me to some people. Wich was handy if i went alone i prob would have walked out and left. Ran into a coworker who also was cool to chill with. Kinda social proof so i wasnt just sitting at the bar or against a wall somewhere i was smiling, and kept my head up. To everyone else it looked like i was having a great time.
The entire night girls were putting themselves in my area, or making eye contact. I dont know how many times my eyes locked with a girl, for me to only look away like i was not interested. Everyone i was with figured i would be macking it with the ladies. Nadda. I was like rejecting everyone. They were attractive, i was actually surprised at the lack of fat chicks, the fat *****y ones.
Remeber going to the bar getting another drink, and this girl from all the way across was with a few friends. She locked eyes with me, i kept in contact then i look away. I look back up shes still looking. I look away repeat then i just walk away. Owned? Her or myself... i didnt smile nod or walk over to give an introduction.
I did to a few people but after that i felt alienated and out of place.
My wingman noticed i was just hovering. Introduced me to this girl, pretty much hand fed her to me. She showed general interest. Then he says "oh man i ll be back in a min gotta use the restroom" He disapears and just leaves me and her alone to chat. I talked for a few then i dont know what the hell i was doing. When there was a silent pause.. i just started to look around the room. One of her friends came over to talk to us and i used it as an exit and kinda walked away.
I said **** it enjoyed the music enjoyed the drinks and just hung out with the friends. I wasnt afraid to be alone if everyone else went outside i was fine with standing there by myself just enjoying the scene.
The entire time... my oneitis was gone, so distracted i almost couldnt remeber my ex's name...i didnt care what she was doing... it was like i never met her. Out of sight out of mind. If i stayed home i would of spent the night figuring out a way to talk to her, email her or something afc'ish.
I definatly wanst a social outcast. There were events and **** going on. Since it was Pirate night they had a plank and had people walk it without falling for prizes and everyone gathered around to watch. It was late in the evening everyone was drunk, i had a good buzz. They would blind fold you, spin you around and you would try to walk it. I managed to get up there, get the crowd going (some girl let me borrow her ninja mask i looked like sub zero from mortal kombat). Everyone else just tried to cross it no one got creative. I somehow managed to do a 360 on the plank, people clapped then a front 180 flip of some sort, i landed it. No idea how. Was cheered and enjoyed the rest of the night.
At one point im hanging with my wingman and he noticed a girl that was checking me out. I didnt look back. Then she put herself like 2-3 ft from me. He even said really loud "dude that girls been looking you up and down for 10 min now go talk to her" she heard... i looked back she smiled... i just went back to talking to my friend. Blew her off.
The girl that let me borrow her ninja mask. Came to get it she was leaving soon prob the best opportunity to number close. Talked to her for a few felt more comfortable. She asked me where i learned to flip like that. I said "Sekret ninja powers" got her giggling. Told her it was my first time to this club. Asked about how the scene is here etc. She mentioned how nothing but skinny boys come through the door.. and then said im jacked . Then she pretty much tried to feel me up. I pretended i didnt hear her and got her to repeat it. I obviously get off on compliments considering how i bust my ass in the gym like its my job. Gave her a hug said i had a great time and she hoped to see me again. HOLY S H I T SON weak game. I saw nerds that prob read this very forum. Isolating girls and def setting up to hit it later in the evening. And here i am... with nothing, no game. I sucked.
Had an awsome time though, sobered up near the end and called it a night and went home.
The end.
I got invited to go out next week same place i may go. I would like to get cold pickups in club or just be a little more active. I have nothing in the club. Still the entire night I walked around like i owned the place but no ladies. I even got a few compliments and some girl pinched my ass. They probably all thought i was gay or something
W T F is wrong with my Brain?