Hi,
A female at work has been flirting with me on and off for a number off months. She started this after a group luncheon and I overheard her quietly tell one of her female coworker friends that she has a bf, but she said it quietly so that I wasnt meant to hear this. Anyways, I did overhear this and didnt really trust her intentions and throughout the last few months acted friendly but reserved around her, but very friendly and animated around other females at work. Anyways, we both have this game where she waves at me, and I just kind of nod in acknowledgement. We'd say "hey" all the time in passing, and sometimes when I say hi to her, she says nothing and looks down on the floor, then if I run into her again, she's give me a little wave. After a few months, I decided I'd finally wave back, and she had a grin on her face. A week later I stopped her in the hall, we had a conversation that lasted about 15 minutes. It was pretty good until she mentioned her bf. I didnt let it phase me on the exterior and teased her for having a bf who is dragging his feet on proposing to her. This girl seems to be attracted to me but then mentions her bf. What's the deal? And she mentioned him before I was even considering asking her out. Over the next few days I kind of distanced myself from her. For example, I am talking to a coworker right next to her office, but I my back is turned to her. When she comes out of the bathroom she goes into her office and slams the door. Shes never done this before. Shes always shuts the door quietly. Anyways, I'm thinking shes interested in me and I admit I have had an attraction of sorts to her but have been cautious and laid back with her. Did she bring up her bf in a conversation in ordering to stimulate my interest in her more? If she has a bf already who shes says she hopes will propose to her should I even waste my time? I have 2 other solid options so I'm not sweating it.
A female at work has been flirting with me on and off for a number off months. She started this after a group luncheon and I overheard her quietly tell one of her female coworker friends that she has a bf, but she said it quietly so that I wasnt meant to hear this. Anyways, I did overhear this and didnt really trust her intentions and throughout the last few months acted friendly but reserved around her, but very friendly and animated around other females at work. Anyways, we both have this game where she waves at me, and I just kind of nod in acknowledgement. We'd say "hey" all the time in passing, and sometimes when I say hi to her, she says nothing and looks down on the floor, then if I run into her again, she's give me a little wave. After a few months, I decided I'd finally wave back, and she had a grin on her face. A week later I stopped her in the hall, we had a conversation that lasted about 15 minutes. It was pretty good until she mentioned her bf. I didnt let it phase me on the exterior and teased her for having a bf who is dragging his feet on proposing to her. This girl seems to be attracted to me but then mentions her bf. What's the deal? And she mentioned him before I was even considering asking her out. Over the next few days I kind of distanced myself from her. For example, I am talking to a coworker right next to her office, but I my back is turned to her. When she comes out of the bathroom she goes into her office and slams the door. Shes never done this before. Shes always shuts the door quietly. Anyways, I'm thinking shes interested in me and I admit I have had an attraction of sorts to her but have been cautious and laid back with her. Did she bring up her bf in a conversation in ordering to stimulate my interest in her more? If she has a bf already who shes says she hopes will propose to her should I even waste my time? I have 2 other solid options so I'm not sweating it.
