Desdinova
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I'm hoping you're suggesting this because you've done it and had it work out well for you. If not, then perhaps you should let the OP decide for himself what he needs to do.AlNess said:You can still be man about this by fessing up, come whatever may.
Admitting that you fvcked around is going to create a LOT more problems than keeping it to yourself. If he decided that he's in the wrong for doing such a thing, then he needs to make the decision to learn from this mistake and put his physical, emotional and sexual effort back into his marriage.
Bringing up the fact that he cheated will NOT make his life better. If she decides to stay with him, she will hold it against him for however long the marriage lasts. She will make his life miserable until the marriage is forced to end. Then the divorce comes along with custody battles, lawyer fees, and everything else.
If he wants to acknowledge that he did something wrong, the best way is to just end the marriage without telling her anything other than "I feel that this marriage isn't working out and I think we should go our separate ways." If he ends it peacefully, he will have a greater chance of coming out in one piece, being able to see his kids regularly, and not be financially destroyed.
Stirring up your wife's negative emotions toward you is no way to make your life better.