What’s worse is the effect on my mind the longer this plays out. The gossip at this office regarding this is intense. But no one seems to be concerned with her behavior. Like I said most people think it’s funny. But imagine if this was a guy doing this to me. It’d be like you said, horror movie/serial killer stuff. But because she’s a woman it’s OK. To be in that crowd with her still at the office makes me question my own sanity. Like maybe it’s not that big of a deal I’ll think to myself - when it clearly is a big deal. That’s been the hardest part. Can you imagine if I moved to her neighborhood after we broke up? Can you imagine what people would have said? I probably would have got fired for that shlt alone.Females can get away with a lot. If the roles were reversed you’d already be in jail.