Someone delete this nonsense. Awesome thread so far, lets remove the crap please.Trader said:All of the above are valuable pieces of advice
One thing that I personally believe that has not yet been mentioned is:
'No sex before marriage.'
Now I am a Christian, but forget about that for a second. Look at it from a PURELY Don Juan perspective.
If you aren't thinking about trying to lay her, you'll come across as more natural, spontaneous, and fun. All girls find that hot and it causes them to fall in love with you
More importantly, by not having sex with her, you are able to weed out low quality women. Low quality women use sex as a way to get power over you. A guy who wants to wait to have sex, cannot be manipulated or controlled by the girl (which is why I'm sure you've guys have all noticed, that when you turn a girl down for sex, she gets PISSED cause she can't control you by giving/witholding sex). A high quality girl is into love, she is LESS into power or manipulation, so she will be more likely to stick around.
Obviously if you want to just bang low quality girls - go ahead that is your perogative. Just remember the opportunity costs of time, money, emotional energy. As Rollo said: 'You always pay for sex in one form, or another.'
Trader. Sex is very basic need in both men and women. Women need less of it but they still need sex. While your view may hold weight at church, its simply not a functional healthy way approach life for anyone.
People dont get married when they are 16 anymore. Waiting for marriage was not a big deal when life expectancy was 35 and you got married when she had buttons on her chest. Please, put the fact that the bible was written in "the before times" into context with society as it is today.
But hey. Praise Jesus and all that