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oneTruman181 said:-If you want to be treated by respect by woman (and others) treat yourself that way FIRST.
-Learn to having a fulfilling and happy life on your OWN, without women.
-Stop telling yourself that having a HOT girlfriend will complete your life and give you the self esteem that you desire, get those things on your own.
-Attain sexual confidence. There are two things that will help with this. 1). Learn sexual techniques, understand how a woman's body works, how to create sexual tension and anticipation. 2). Gain sexual experience with HOT women. Once you've had sex with a super hottie, you will KNOW that sex with the hottest women around isn't the solution(s) to your life.
-Hot women are COMMON, what is truly unique, and what you should be looking for, is CHEMISTRY. I've dated some hotties in my time but the one I enjoyed the most liked to do the things I ENJOY whether that be going for walks around the lake or just chill at home and play video games or watch a movie.
-Have criteria in mind when it comes to women. Know what you want in girls instead of being attracted to every hot woman you come across. Women aren't attracted to guys who don't have qualifications with the women they date.
-women look GOOD for a reason and that is to attract US. Many guys are intimated by a woman's beauty and thinks to himself "damn she's hot, there is no way that I am good looking enough for her". BULLSH!T. Women look that good to attract US. Our job isn't to match their level of attractiveness, our job is to either be attracted to THEM or NOT. In other words, you have my permission to stop being a whiny little b!tch who wonders if he is good looking enough.
-Attraction isn't a choice.
-The way to attract a woman is to give her 'good emotions' around you.
-Don't chase girls, get them to chase you. Don't try to win them over, get them to win you over.
-always retain your personal power in a relationship, the second you give up your power, you will NEVER get it back.
-Be willing to walk away from any woman. Once you aren't willing to walk away from a woman, she owns you and it's only a matter of a time until it's over.
-if you get dumped, walk away with your dignity and do it as soon as possible. Once a woman has dumped you, she will never value you the same way. Even if she takes you back someday, she will not have the same level of respect for you that she once had.
-if a woman takes a step back from you, take two steps back (metaphorically speaking).
-If a woman doesn't fit into your life, NEXT. DO NOT try to fit into her life.
-Handle all your emotional baggage and deal with your issues, then live a life that makes you happy with or without women. Have fun and enjoy life and chances are you will meet someone who wants to come along for the ride.
Posters who contributed MORE than one piece of advice = 8 (including myself)backbreaker said:
jophil28 said:Here are some related thoughts..
Spend your time, efforts and attention only on quality women who demonstrate a HIGH interest level in you . Eject the AWs,fakes and flakes, cheaters, drinkers and drugies and women who have had multiple failed LTRs. Do not get involved with women who have other male "friends" . These "friends" are being used by her for all kinds of benefits..
Be very wary of single mothers and be willing to walk away at the first sign of problems. Never "negotiate" anything problematic with a woman. She could care less about mutual resolution of conflict. Women generally believe that they are entitled to have all difficulties resolve themselves in their favor, which really means that she expects you to give ground.
Keep you finger on the Eject lever for at least the first three months.
Mr.Positive said:Women act on the "emotions" and "feelings" you generate in them, never logic. Throw logic out when dealing with women, and ignore what they say.
Women will say one thing, then do something completely different. A woman's actions will tell you everything.
Furthermore, never get frustrated or angry with women...just get disappointed.
ducaro said:A very interesting thread...
1. I second Warrior74
2. Do not trust women who are scared of being alone.
3. Do not waste time with women who are excessivelyconcerned with their exteriors (Women with tatoos and piercings are)
4. Women will always follow their emotions and they always like novelty.
5. They should always be treated like little girls.
6. Try very hard and look beyond her appearance. Most women have nothing beyond that.
azanon said:That it is possible to find a woman that would be worthy of marriage, where you'd benefit more from the marriage than alone but that finding a woman of this caliber will not be easy. Remember, the guy here with the most green squares is married.
Ok I admit, this wasn't my first choice, but I felt obligated to say it given what's been already said.
Call me lazy, but I practically shudder now at the thought of having to do everything in a daily routine. If you can find a genuine partner that pulls half (or more than half) the total weight, life is so much easier.
Colossus said:I'll add another--
Avoid obsessing over a woman's looks. You will find this really is a waste of life. Physical attraction is a non-negotiable, but if you are always striving for the 9's and 10's you will miss out on women who can bring a LOT more to your table.
I second most of what everyone else has said. Notice that this all DJ 101. Live and breathe the BASICS and you will figure out the rest.
sodbuster said:Forgot, If you are thinking maybe I should break up with her-you should.
Number of posters called out for posting more than one piece of advice =DonS said:Don't take life so seriously. You know what, we are all going to get old and die. Let go of all your insecurities and just go for it; because, in the end, it is this quality that is most attractive to the ladies. Well-adjusted women love a well-adjusted man. And what display gauges how well-adjusted you are, simply confidence. The confidence to walk into a room of strangers and make it happen; the confidence to tell your boss you want to be challenged, and mean it; the confidence to see a woman you want to have sex with and to make it happen.
Stop allowing the world to control you like a string puppet; you make it happen; no one else.
backbreaker said:well... yes but damnit this damn 10 post rule they have now i can't call everyone out.. I just called the last poster out.
STR8UP said:Woman are NOT the sweet innocent creatures you would like to believe that they are. She might have blown the entire football team in the locker room after the game in high school, and chances are about 99.9999999% that you will never know about it.
Don't fall into the "She's not like that, she's DIFFERENT" trap.
Put away your credit card.
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- When the above happens, end the conversation at that moment or things could get verbally abusive and physically violent, if the conversation continues.Mr. Me said:When a woman does or says something that doesn't make sense to you and gives you one of those WTF?? moments, it's not that "women are illogical" or that "they don't make any sense" or that they're having a emotional moment or being absent-minded or anything else but the simple fact that...
they're bullsh!tting you.
You're having the WTF moment because you're trying to make sense out of something that doesn't make sense.