The sad part is nice guys like this usually have good intentions. He didn’t want to pressure her or make her uncomfortable. But the chick doesn’t ever see it that way.
Tag, as in the children's game?
I had to re-read that several times to make sure I wasn't reading slang.
Terrible frame! It's a teenager's frame, not an adult frame.
If you're gonna rent an airbnb and drive 12 hours, at least get one with a hot tub.
Then you can bring Champagne and your secret weapon Mr. Bubbles.
Then you play dumb and tell the chick "The owner just informed me about a jacuzzi in the house, wanna help me find it?"
He probably wouldn't be able lead her further than that I'm guessing.
The sad part is nice guys like this usually have good intentions. He didn’t want to pressure her or make her uncomfortable. But the chick doesn’t ever see it that way.
If you move to fast and she gives it up she feels like a sl00t afterwards but if you don't make a move you in end up in the guy's shoes, you damned if you do and damned if you don't sometimes
“Me too” scared off alot of dudes from being aggressive and going for it. Then there’s the coach who’s in hot water for having some harmless phone sex and is out of millions. Guys watch the news, they see what’s going on. Not saying this excuses what he did but I bet it had a lot to do with it.
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If you move to fast and she gives it up she feels like a sl00t afterwards but if you don't make a move you in end up in the guy's shoes, you damned if you do and damned if you don't sometimes
You just got to be on that mindset where you give no f***s about what she thinks or how she would feel after and think about your needs and wants first.
I guess the dude OP posted about "cared" about her feelings or was prjecting how he wanted to be treated. In reality, maybe the girl wanted something else. Nice guy epitome where you walk on eggshells.
You just got to be on that mindset where you give no f***s about what she thinks or how she would feel after and think about your needs and wants first.
I guess the dude OP posted about "cared" about her feelings or was prjecting how he wanted to be treated. In reality, maybe the girl wanted something else. Nice guy epitome where you walk on eggshells.
That’s all fine and dandy until it’s not. It takes ONE woman to change her mind and lie to the cops and you’re done. Think it won’t happen to you? It happens to many dudes who thought the same thing.
Tag, as in the children's game?
I had to re-read that several times to make sure I wasn't reading slang.
Terrible frame! It's a teenager's frame, not an adult frame.
If you're gonna rent an airbnb and drive 12 hours, at least get one with a hot tub.
Then you can bring Champagne and your secret weapon Mr. Bubbles.
Then you play dumb and tell the chick "The owner just informed me about a jacuzzi in the house, wanna help me find it?"
He probably wouldn't be able lead her further than that I'm guessing.
I genuinely don't understand how men still don't understand how much of a waste of time to chat with a girl online without meeting her right away. Unless you have advanced enough level skills to pick up in their IL, you're most likely going to think she's way more invested and interested than she actually is and it'll be a big disappointment.
The biggest issue is that there's no way to test chemistry with someone until you meet them in person.
Quite shocked on how the discussion is more about that the guy drove 12h to meet a girl, instead of the women giving herself on silver platter and that guy missing the escalation point, and then ofc the line “ there is no chemistry”
Most of the guys here are ok with going to a god forsaken place that is more “traditional” and most likely more than 12h away from where they live, but yet when someone goes to some other place instead of the god forsaken place that are ok people get triggered
From my end this is a story about what happens if you miss the escalation point, not about that a guy went to another city to sleep with a girl
