"Do you hate me?"

[Vice]

...asks a girl whom I'm playing a 4-month ganji game with.

I haven't talked to her in about four months, and she'll send me a message every once in a while, and I'll usually read it and ignore it.

She pretty much left me for another chode guy a day or two before my senior prom, and instead of going to a nice prom setting with me she hung out with this ***** guy who is really sketchy and nervous around girls. The only reason he got her was because he used myspace to convey a false image of being a really cool guy. I then went to prom myself and promptly hooked up with a girl that night, then had sex with her a few days later.

They didn't even do anything sexual, they didn't even kiss. The guy was too ***** to do it, and when they eventually did about a week later, SHE reassured HIM that first kisses are always "awkward". They just drove around in his SUV with a rather good audio system in it.

But the thing is, he uses that audio system as an identity, as a tool for wooing girls and potential friends. It seems that he forgets that you can't bring your car to a party, and thus he becomes another chode at the party, while someone like myself is having a blast.

Anyway, what should I reply with? I don't hate her, I'm just annoyed by her for being so easily fooled. Granted, she's 17...

 

[KontrollerX]

You don't reply to her.

Thats what she wants.

She wants any reply from you at all so that she can then rationalize whatever it is that you say as you hating her and thus caring about her in some way.

She can't handle that she doesn't currently have your validation through knowing your feelings on her be they anger or whatever they are so she is relentless in persuing a response from you because her mind cannot fathom that she is not all that and a bag of chips.

So yeah you give her any response just remember that I'm telling you now if you do that she wins.

So don't respond in any way shape or form and if she ever calls you and you hear her voice don't even say hello, let her hear the click on the other end of the phone as you hang up, if she confronts you in public walk on by and do not respond to her.

Keep a normal look on your face as you ignore her and again I say walk on by.

She had her chance and she fvcked it up.

Don't listen to any guy's saying she's young and entitled to mistakes blah blah blah.

What she did was no mistake.

She wanted to do it.

This is an example of her character and it rarely changes in my opinion once a person is about the age of 15-17.

So I never buy that excuse bullsh!t weak males prop up about saying forgive a girl for screwing you over when she was a youngster because oh she'll suddenly be a better person when she's older and has more life experience.

The only mistakes I buy as legit are actual mistakes such as screwing up on a math problem or not tying your shoe laces and falling and breaking your hip or arm as a result.

Those are mistakes.

A girl making a choice to go suck off some other guy no matter what age she is is not a mistake.

She wanted to do it.

So remember that too.

The difference between mistakes and decisions.

 

[Vice]

Thank you.

 

[OTB]

The only reason he got her was because he used myspace to convey a false image of being a really cool guy.

Many AFCs on this site do not realize how easy it is to get girls on Myspace!

Not to capitalize on your problems here, but this is an extremely important point many people must learn to understand! :yes:


All you guys better step up your God-damn Myspace game!

As long as you convey an image of being a "pretty cool guy", you're almost guaranteed to get a lay! :cheer:

Not to mention the fact that 's it's virtual reality preparing you for real life,
and analogy to this would be the special forces playing military simulations before going out into the field (literally) and killing some Islamist scum! :box:

 

[OTB]

The only mistakes I buy as legit are actual mistakes such as screwing up on a math problem or not tying your shoe laces and falling and breaking your hip or arm as a result.

Wow KontrollerX, that's quite an interesting way to look at life!

I'm definetly gonna keep that in mind from now on!

 

[CarbonFX]

She had her chance and she fvcked it up.

Don't listen to any guy's saying she's young and entitled to mistakes blah blah blah.

What she did was no mistake.

She wanted to do it.

This is an example of her character and it rarely changes in my opinion once a person is about the age of 15-17.

So I never buy that excuse bullsh!t weak males prop up about saying forgive a girl for screwing you over when she was a youngster because oh she'll suddenly be a better person when she's older and has more life experience.

The only mistakes I buy as legit are actual mistakes such as screwing up on a math problem or not tying your shoe laces and falling and breaking your hip or arm as a result.

Those are mistakes.

A girl making a choice to go suck off some other guy no matter what age she is is not a mistake.

She wanted to do it.

So remember that too.

The difference between mistakes and decisions.

Wow, this post really was about the best thing I have seen/heard all day. The last two lines are the motto of my week now. Props, rep, whatever you call it

 

[typical]

Wow blown away there mate excellent advice !!

 

[edu11]

Don't listen to any guy's saying she's young and entitled to mistakes blah blah blah.

What she did was no mistake.

She wanted to do it.

This is an example of her character and it rarely changes in my opinion once a person is about the age of 15-17.

So I never buy that excuse bullsh!t weak males prop up about saying forgive a girl for screwing you over when she was a youngster because oh she'll suddenly be a better person when she's older and has more life experience.

The only mistakes I buy as legit are actual mistakes such as screwing up on a math problem or not tying your shoe laces and falling and breaking your hip or arm as a result.

Those are mistakes.

A girl making a choice to go suck off some other guy no matter what age she is is not a mistake.

She wanted to do it.

So remember that too.

The difference between mistakes and decisions.

Amen Brother. Amen.

 

[Metaphysical]

Thank you.

Normally I'd throw my own comment. But it is exactly the same like Kontroller.

I was just about to write the same thing so it's not worth regurgitating.

YOU ARE DONE with this girl. There is NO POINT to talk to her. Any bit of your attention will make her feel like she has WON. The whole Ganji game thing is about the EGO. Her EGO needs proof that you still validate her. Do not give it to her.

Move on.

Be a man. Be strong.

And most importantly, DO NOT READ ANY more replies on this thread. Eventually some moron will come out with something stupid to say like "you should forgive her". DO NOT read any more. You got what you wanted to know. More than one person told you so.

Move on from this skank. Don't talk to her, dont look at her, don't text her, email her or even think about her. She was sucking another man's c0ck while you were thinking about how sweet she is. Fuck that.

You should not show hate. Hate shows her you still care. Alike that song: "Love me or hate me, it's still an OBSESSION.". Just move on. She shouldn't mean more to you than a McDonalds big-mac empty box on the street. You just step on it and move on. This skank ain't worth a cent.

On top of this, know that you are a MAN. Your value as a MAN will increase from this age on. She is at the peak of her value. Give her 5 or 10 years and she will fat, covered in wrinkles and spitting out babies. You will be a chizeled man for who every woman drools over. Let THAT be your revenge to her.

 

[Vice]

Fantastic replies KontrollerX and Meta, you've put me in a whole other state of mind...

I'm just wondering what to say to her girlfriends when they ask if I still talk to her/like her.

Note: Edited original and added a few details on what went on that night, there was no **** sucking going on at all, it seems that some of you assumed so...

 

[KontrollerX]

"I'm just wondering what to say to her girlfriends when they ask if I still talk to her/like her."

How you answer this kind of crap is to evade the questions pretty much every time.

Say they ask you your feelings about her using emotional bait language like do you still like so and so you would then turn it around on the girls and ask if they like you and basically casually evade answering the question every single time they ask it until they get tired of asking.

Don't give into answering how they want by getting angry from their continued questioning and saying "Alright I like her enough already!"

Don't do that.

Thats a common anger trap far too many weak males fall into.

Keep your cool and keep your calm and evade as many times as necessary with a smile turning their questioning around on them by flirting with them or outright brushing their questions off.

You can answer the "Do you still talk to her" question regularly though by saying something short like "Nah" or "No" whichever you prefer but don't say something like "can't say that I do" or "not anymore" as they'll interpret that as an emotional angered response and go give your ex hookup buddy her emotional validation she so desperately needs.

 

[Alle_Gory]

I'm just wondering what to say to her girlfriends when they ask if I still talk to her/like her.

Answer with a question.

Do you like her?
What do you think?
Yes.
Ok, then keep on thinking that.