- Mar 9, 2021
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There's a rule in business that I heard of that basically says whoever speaks business first loses, does this apply to dating?
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had this exact thought myself. idk tho, probably just wait for them to message. and we should have plates and thingsto do to keep us occupied instead of waiting for her to message. if she doesnt then she probably wasnt interested
BumpEach person probably has their own formula.
I'll share mine. It works for me, but not saying that it's a one size fits all for everyone.
If I score, then I have no reservations about initiating a next day text. If a woman has given up the goods, then she's not going to get smug (at least so far in my experience) over a man initiating the 'day after' text.
On the other hand, if I didn't get the green light, then it's up to them. Because I'll pick up the tab on drinks (or on a rare occasion even a dinner) there's an 'unwritten protocol.' If they don't follow up with something like "Thanks again for the drinks" or "I had a good time last night" then it's likely that they aren't interested or that they lack certain manners. Either way, nether case should be worth further investment.
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While there are some similarities between business and dating, it is not entirely analogous. The business areas that are most similar to dating are marketing and sales. Marketing and sales are not the same thing.
That's been rare for me. Few women are clingy nowadays because women have so many options. Women have abundance mentality now because they have actual abundance of prospects.How many times have you had a great date and the woman desperately texts you after silence from you, only for things to go nowhere?
There is no rule governing who should text first, why start the courtship with games unnecessarily?
If you truly connected with the person, there is no reason you should not hit her up the next day.
This is simply not true. I've messaged many women over the years after a date, and usually got a response which lead to another date.never contact her first, its the equivalent of telling her you like her. These modern women need to be kept in a constant state of anxiety,simple as.
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But if other guys are hitting her up right away, couldn't this create FOMO for her?This is simply not true. I've messaged many women over the years after a date, and usually got a response which lead to another date.
Not texting her will not put her in a state of anxiety, woman have dozens of better looking guys messaging her, she is not going to lose any sleep over your games.
Attractive women really don't care about missing out, she can fill her calendar up every day of the week.But if other guys are hitting her up right away, couldn't this create FOMO for her?
This is a really good pro-tip.I always end the date with "text me when you get back, so I know you got home safe". Most women find it really sweet and it forces them to text first. If they don't it means no interest from them.
Do what’s best for you and I used to have the same mindset.Not texting her will not put her in a state of anxiety, woman have dozens of better looking guys messaging her
Zim, chivalry is dead my friend. Texting this is something my mom would say. You’re not her mom and unless she’s hitchhiking, she’ll get home just fine.I always end the date with "text me when you get back, so I know you got home safe"
Anecdotally speaking, it has worked wonders for me. The first time I did it, the chick sent me a really long text about how much she loved that and how happy it made her. It helps that a lot of the women I have dated see me as some sort of "father figure".Zim, chivalry is dead my friend. Texting this is something my mom would say. You’re not her mom and unless she’s hitchhiking, she’ll get home just fine.
In her mind, “I’ll be waiting by my phone worried till you text me“.