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Do women recognize/know that Men has Game?
- Thread starter DonBig
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Yes and no. Some women thought I didn’t have game, and others absolutely thought I had it. It depends on the woman. If she’s dated douchebags all her life, my game ain’t gonna work on her no matter how hard I try. I’m just never going to act like what she’s used to, what she considers “good game”. Game is not universal, I don’t care what anyone says. What works for some women, won’t ever work with others. My game has gotten me laid within 30 mins of meeting a girl but it’s also gotten me friendzoned too. It just depends on the woman. Don’t try to tweak your game to suit every woman, you’ll drive yourself crazy and your personality will be a mixture of all sorts of crap. You won’t come off as genuine, your true self.
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“Game” is essentially being smooth or suave (hence the name of this site). She can be attracted to you even if you’re not smooth, but it definitely helps. Being smooth is a concept that is very simple to understand but very difficult to master. It involves being a good talker (and in particular being able to make witty situational comments and deploy sexual innuendo without seeming creepy) and being good with physical touch (utilizing it at the right time, without overdoing it).
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I guess bro, if she finds you attractive you don’t have to follow any of these rules. You can make sexual comments, touch her as much as you want.. she’s basically gonna make it easy for you.
I would say there are 4 levels of attraction
-Not attracted(at this level anything you say sexual is creepy, she doesn’t want you to touch her and she will call you out on any stupid comment)
-Lukewarm(Somewhat attracted but you don’t exactly knock her socks off, she will want you to “court” her at this level of attraction before you can escalate. The escalation will be slow.
-Attracted but not available(boyfriend, married, single mom too busy, yeast infection
, genuinely busy with school/work)-Got the hots for you ..(all your jokes are funny, even the ones that really aren’t, she will INITIATE you touching her, you’ll probably smash the first or second date, everything is easy and smooth)
The smart man only bothers with the latter, the others are kind of a waste of time.
I think we’ve all had women in these categories through our dating career. The best thing you can do is become as attractive as possible (looks, money, status, physique & dress) so more women fall in the “got the hots for you” category.
Only a small minority of men ever get to experience the latter one. Lukewarm is the most common.I guess bro, if she finds you attractive you don’t have to follow any of these rules. You can make sexual comments, touch her as much as you want.. she’s basically gonna make it easy for you.
I would say there are 4 levels of attraction
-Not attracted(at this level anything you say sexual is creepy, she doesn’t want you to touch her and she will call you out on any stupid comment)
-Lukewarm(Somewhat attracted but you don’t exactly knock her socks off, she will want you to “court” her at this level of attraction before you can escalate. The escalation will be slow.
-Attracted but not available(boyfriend, married, single mom too busy, yeast infection
-Got the hots for you ..(all your jokes are funny, even the ones that really aren’t, she will INITIATE you touching her, you’ll probably smash the first or second date, everything is easy and smooth)
The smart man only bothers with the latter, the others are kind of a waste of time.
I think we’ve all had women in these categories through our dating career. The best thing you can do is become as attractive as possible (looks, money, status, physique & dress) so more women fall in the “got the hots for you” category.
You think so? Idk I feel like if you’re fit, dress well, and are confident & intelligent you would atleast occasionally find women who have the hots for you.
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She can be attracted to you based on looks, but if you’re boring and awkward that attraction will fade.
You’d be surprised.
That’s probably true. Basic social skills help for sure. Once she’s attracted, stfu, get her alone and whip out your peterwhacker.
Perhaps aiming too high? I catch flack for it around here but a lot of guys could solve their problems by simply dating down. If you’re a 7 date 5-6s. If you’re a 10 date 8s. Etc etc.
You’re just not going to consistently date bombshells with a average job, average face, average status, average lifestyle. You are competing with elites. Pro athletes, doctors, actors etc etc
LucianoM
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Yup, no such thing. If she likes your face and personality you're in and thats the end of it.
Well, that's wasn't the Question. The Question was whether they recognize it.
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No they dont. They recognize it as much as they recognize that they are testing you for strength.
Yes there is game. If there were no game none of us would be here now.
Thats like asking "does a whitetail deer enter rut"
We don't crash antlers we make lists of how to's and try to put them in action.
The RP is praxiology and a tool box. Game is the tools.
Anyone here know music theory?
Look at it this way.
The redpill is the theory structure that makes up the tune. Game is the key of the song and the notes that make up the key. Choose wisely
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metalwater
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depends on the experience level of the woman. if she is close to inocent... ha ha... then no..
if she has been around, then yes...
if she is out for a good time, she wants a guy with game. if she is hunting a provider, she wants little or no game in the guy.
If you're looking for hookups, use game.
If your looking for longer-term arrangements, not so much, just enough to not do stupid stuff.
The women will self-sort based on you.
If your looking for hookups and have no or negative game; dry spell.
If you're looking for long term and using lots of game; probably get ghosted a lot.
if she has been around, then yes...
if she is out for a good time, she wants a guy with game. if she is hunting a provider, she wants little or no game in the guy.
If you're looking for hookups, use game.
If your looking for longer-term arrangements, not so much, just enough to not do stupid stuff.
The women will self-sort based on you.
If your looking for hookups and have no or negative game; dry spell.
If you're looking for long term and using lots of game; probably get ghosted a lot.
No offense that’s a lie. They are all equal slices of a pie. You can be a brilliant lawyer but if you’re short fat and sloppy looking your just not going to get a lot of women. Or the women you do get will be with you 100% for your money. You have to strive to be the total package.
Yeah right.. then she will glue a carrot on your forehead and call you my unicorn. I have the assumption that you are not well with women. Take a break from this platform and keep BS like that for yourself.
Lol, what?! I see now you’re here to troll. I understand the assignment. To my blocklist you go.
But you’re right I’ve internalized the good things about this community and discarded the bad I don’t really need to be on this platform anymore. I just pop in now and then to try to help.
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