Fruitbat
Master Don Juan
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Why is it that my wife watched endless soaps and movies about true love stories with romance, yet romance in real life is a real turn off?
I’m not really romantic - a little bit for the sake of horseplay at Valentine’s Day, but if I acted like these guys she would laugh!
Plus, all the guys in these movies are wimps. Very effiminate. Yet she is with me, a mis-shapen Anglo Saxon with the appearance of a rock carrier and a face to match?
I’ve found this in general - they swoon over this stuff yet choose men entirely different?
I know it is this way, what women think isn’t what they actually like, but why? Why do they have an interest in things they don’t actually want?
She could most certainly find a “pretty guy”.
She isn’t controlling or insecure, which may be a reason for some - ie they want someone “below them”.
What is up with that?
I’m not really romantic - a little bit for the sake of horseplay at Valentine’s Day, but if I acted like these guys she would laugh!
Plus, all the guys in these movies are wimps. Very effiminate. Yet she is with me, a mis-shapen Anglo Saxon with the appearance of a rock carrier and a face to match?
I’ve found this in general - they swoon over this stuff yet choose men entirely different?
I know it is this way, what women think isn’t what they actually like, but why? Why do they have an interest in things they don’t actually want?
She could most certainly find a “pretty guy”.
She isn’t controlling or insecure, which may be a reason for some - ie they want someone “below them”.
What is up with that?