stevera004
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 4, 2004
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- 267
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OK. Here it is. Took the day off from work today; was going to see a movie at the local second-run movie theatre and decided 'Fvck that'; no decent women (or nearly any) at matinees. So, detoured to the local Border's and just browsed (for women and books). Was in my own personal Alpha/DJ zone; didn't see any HB's at all; forget about HB8 or higher. Didn't get discouraged though; was unsettled by a major leagure DJ browsing next to me (you can just tell by the clothes and the attitude). BTW: does anyone else find this unsettling and difficult to deal with?
Continuing, picked up a mag and went over to the attached Starbucks. Looked around a bit and sat down right next to a HB8. Could tell there was some interest cause she was stealing glances; I 'called her out' on it by looking directly back at her. We both smiled; but I broke eye-contact first (AFC'ism is difficult to destroy but part of it is practise). Finally decided to strike up a convo. with her. Opening line was good but not decisive:
ME: Are you a fast reader?
HER: Uhm?
ME: I see you're already half-way through that book...
And so it goes ...
She was digging me and definately taking cues off me; some nercousness was evident by her leg-tapping and she touched her face repeatedly. Good signs. Convo. lasted 30 minutes; first 5 minutes were a bit rough but it was fairly smooth after that. The fact that I was well acquianted this her interests; her industry (manages a paycheck cashing craphole) and general life put me in charge. She liked it.
OK, here comes the but.
I noticed her ring and then she mentions 'Her Huisband". This didn't faze me, but then she mentioned 'Her Kids" and I decided to "Exit Stage Left". Didn't have the heart to try to pursue a married woman with kids (or maybe it was just this one).
Anyways, once I drank my coffee, made some lam-asz exscuse and high-tailed it out.
Still, just the human contact felt great. I will definately do this again. When I do, I'll try to post (to inspire and entertain of course .
Take it easy,
Continuing, picked up a mag and went over to the attached Starbucks. Looked around a bit and sat down right next to a HB8. Could tell there was some interest cause she was stealing glances; I 'called her out' on it by looking directly back at her. We both smiled; but I broke eye-contact first (AFC'ism is difficult to destroy but part of it is practise). Finally decided to strike up a convo. with her. Opening line was good but not decisive:
ME: Are you a fast reader?
HER: Uhm?
ME: I see you're already half-way through that book...
And so it goes ...
She was digging me and definately taking cues off me; some nercousness was evident by her leg-tapping and she touched her face repeatedly. Good signs. Convo. lasted 30 minutes; first 5 minutes were a bit rough but it was fairly smooth after that. The fact that I was well acquianted this her interests; her industry (manages a paycheck cashing craphole) and general life put me in charge. She liked it.
OK, here comes the but.
I noticed her ring and then she mentions 'Her Huisband". This didn't faze me, but then she mentioned 'Her Kids" and I decided to "Exit Stage Left". Didn't have the heart to try to pursue a married woman with kids (or maybe it was just this one).
Anyways, once I drank my coffee, made some lam-asz exscuse and high-tailed it out.
Still, just the human contact felt great. I will definately do this again. When I do, I'll try to post (to inspire and entertain of course .
Take it easy,