Howiestern said:I had an exwife that gave me some of the same reasons for wanting a divorce that Samspade has listed.
I just think its pretty pathetic that you got married in the first place if this is how you feel.
Sometimes the mind has a way of tricking you into believing you need this and that to be happy. But what you are doing reminds me of something a woman would do by acting on her "feelings".
Just walking away because of what you have shared isn't good enough.
People just don't take marriage serious, its a big f'n joke. Wedding vows don't mean $hit. Its all about me me me me me and having your own selfish needs taken care of. Its all instant gratification. Its what faKebook is all about. Its why this world is in the trouble its in. Some adults remind me of small children the way they carry out their lives.
Sam, someday you may just look back on what you did and wonder if it was the right thing to walk away from a solid woman. Women worth keeping are pretty rare in this world.
Ahh but wtf do I know. Im too damn old skool for most anyways.
Way to shame the guy. You would rather he sacrifice his happiness for what, the sanctity of marriage? That's certainly old school.
The guy made a mistake, he's acknowledged it and he's paying the price to make things right. Sounds like what a grown man does to me.