Master Don Juan
- Jan 16, 2012
- Reaction score
I believe that line and that way to think is what screws a lot of guys, puts pressure on them and makes them do stuff they wouldnt do otherwise.I think it's the matter of positive and negative experience to a significant degree.
I've noticed that my IL in women took hit after several break ups inititated by them - its like my brain's reward circuit starts to signal me that's not a good idea for me to go after them with the same (high) IL as I did before which is an issue because if you are not highly interested in them, you won't really pick them up or game them properly (because you don't want to wake up with hot iron in your hand again so to speak)
I plan to:
- train a lot in 2020 (to raise my endorphine and testosterone levels)
- pay for play if I will hit really dry phase of dating (hopefully not)
You need to feel that what you are doing (work/self-development) pays in this area as well - you just need to. Sex is what you need to be happy, otherwise you will go monk mode and pray to birds and praise Mother Nature whole weeks when other guys will score and score more women
What I mean is you need to keep your happiness level in check - otherwise you will erase yourself from this competition (because that's what life is).
To decide our actions according to what others are doing or worse yet the fear of missing out something that probably is not even happening is a very dangerous counselor.