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I haven't been to NYC, but it has so many people, so I can see why you would choke often. I would just say go for it becauseGosh jwhite - I need a little help from you...I choke too much. In NYC, I just go out everyday and I have about 10 chances for a pickup - right when the girl is near me, I choke - any advice to avoid this.....
Did you immediately start with the question "Are you single" or did you just have a conversation? I would like to know what you made different (even slightly) when you compare the "now your girlfriend" approach the other ones.Approach 5 on July 9, 2003
I saw a HB9 laying down outside my dorm. I immediately approached her without any hesitation. I was with a couple of guys, and we had an interesting conversation with her.
Subsequently, a couple of days later she comes into my room to talk. At first she seemed a bit nervous around, then after awhile she opened up. A week later; she spends the night, which I don’t have any problems with. She is definitely a quality chick who could be LTR material, but I still want to see what else is out there.
I don't look at it that way. I'm asking if she is single to see if she is worth my time or not. Since I did most of my CA's on campus, I had to make it short because some of them were walking the other way or busy doing something else like reading. So, I would cut to the chase and ask them out right then and their not caring about rapport at that time.I know you've been asked this 8264 times already, but after they've said "Yeah, I'm single"... doesn't it feel strange to just say "okay, so it's great whether we're having"... you know, jump the subjects. Doesn't flow with the conversation?
It is funny you ask that because I did that approach differently than the others. Let me give you the fuller version of the story, I was walking back from lunch with to guy friends. I see my then future GF lying down on the ground with the shortest shorts I have ever seen in my life . She has a killer body, and her thong was sticking straight out! Anyways, she was with this other girl(her roommate as I found out later).Did you immediately start with the question "Are you single" or did you just have a conversation? I would like to know what you made different (even slightly) when you compare the "now your girlfriend" approach the other ones.
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Actually, I meant my current GF not future GF(was that at the time, sorry for the confusion). And the answer to your question is no because I found out all the information about that topic without having to ask her. You don't always have to start out a convo with a girl with "Are you single?" Initinally, it helped me know exactly what to say when I first interacted with a girl. After each approach, it gets easier and easier, so the reason I couldn't give a definite answer what to say after "are you single" was that I got so use to the approach, I became more comfortable with talking to girls that I could extend the conversation in any direction I wanted after my first question.did you use the line "Are you single" on her (your future gf) too?