Master Don Juan
- Apr 2, 2014
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No, the problem is that being kind is not something that will get your foot in the door with women, or turn them on afterward, and those are the 2 most important steps by far. After that it's easy.It's as if almost everyone on this forum thinks being kind is the same as being a pathetic pushover. I guess that's why so few go for LTR and even fewer succeed at it, most guys here don't fully comprehend how it works while they think they do.
They're not wrong, they do want kind men, but the fewest of us seem to be able to handle the balance of maintaining dignity while not being an assh0le in general.
Telling a man he needs to "be more kind" is like telling a Treblinka camp inmate that he needs to remember to redecorate his home. It's not relevant to his current life, and even if it was, it's a petty matter. Getting into contact with women, being attractive to women and then successfully escalating with women, that's relevant. Getting told to "be more kind" is like a smug mockery in comparison.