Conversation To Her Heart

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CONVERSATION:

1. First, vision your seduction more powerful than her's. Be down & prepared for whatever.

2. Talk about FEELINGS. "how was your weekend?, what did you do? did you have fun? i like the way your hair is?" - anything that you think she would like to talk about.

3. never, ever, ever, ever, ever analyse her problem's. when she start's bytching or complaining about something, dont tell her how to solve it. just listen & sympathize with her. agree with her.

4. question & description's. (ask "what...?", "have you ever...?", & "how do you FEEL...?" question's).

5. question her on the same subject. stick to the same subject. dont ramble of different question after different question's. if she tell's you about her trip to Hawaii, ask a bunch of Hawaii question's, or question's on vacation's or whatever related. your object is to let her know you're listening to her. that she can trust telling you whatever. if she trust's you enough, she'll probably change the subject to SEX. dont be bashful now.

6. rephrase whatever she say's & feed it back to her. "so you think i should cut my hair", "so, you believe he did it", whatever.

7. trees have branches & conversation has topic's. pick a word she say's and go from there. "my girlfriend Sharon told me that I should do some modeling before I go into the Army". Topic's she gave you: 1)Sharon 2) Modeling 3)The Army

8. open up her answer: HER: "i like a guy who's muscular. YOU (skinny & all): "how does a guy with muscles make you feel". Her: "he makes me feel protected". She does'nt neccesarily want a guy with muscles but a guy who makes her feel protected. you can do that skinny guy.

(O.K., now that you know her, time to flip tha script on her - not on the first date of course)

9. MIND GAMES: question her judgement on thing's. challenge her facts & figures. plant doubt in her mind. (all in fun of course). nothing negative thou.

10. if you got yourself a 9 or a 10, hit her (not physically) with a negative remark like: you got a big belly, what's wrong with you hair, how long have you had them shoes. if she start's to break down, confort her & tell her you was just kiddin.

good luck

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felle

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10. if you got yourself a 9 or a 10, hit her (not physically) with a negative remark like: you got a big belly, what's wrong with you hair, how long have you had them shoes. if she start's to break down, confort her & tell her you was just kiddin.

The power of TEASING is very POWERFUL but DANGEREOUS thing! Do it with the exact portions and you will be able to create very PLEASANT situations, for YOU as for THE GIRL. To me, the best situation is when she teases you back now and than. This will keep it for her as for you pleasant and exciting!

But two things are so important :

1. Only do it when you're so sure the situation is totally ready for it! If you don't know the girl very well or she's a bit shy or something like that, than don't do it. If she is one who's really emotionaly or romantic, don't do it. Do it with girls where you REALLY have FUN with. The best place in my eyes is in a kind'of discoteque or bar.

2. Be sure to know with what your playing! What I've found out, it's sometimes hard to know when when you're going to far or not. When she's getting really quiet, nervous or suddenly she isn't that excited anymore, know these are signs you'll have gone to far. Watch out with your remarks. Like told above on nr 10. be sure to confort her enough and let her know you're just kidding!
 
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isn't it rather strange? its appears to be so hard for a man to get to a woman's heart (so many rules) but its very easy for women to get to a man's heart (straight through the chest with a knife).

getting to a woman's heart (or anyone's) should come in naturally. conversation should be smooth and come in naturally too. there may be too many things to remember, so what you can do is to practice on others.
 

Ko-B

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this is good ish ATNA thanks
 

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Good post!

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-bump-
 

Take No Dirt

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A Turle Name Adrian, thanks for your contribution! Nice post with chock full of good tips concerning conversing with girls.

We talk with ease with our male buddies. If we could have the same comfort and ease when talking to a hot babe, life as a DJ would be a cake walk.
 

GREAT BIG MAN

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Originally posted by Profound:
isn't it rather strange? its appears to be so hard for a man to get to a woman's heart (so many rules) but its very easy for women to get to a man's heart (straight through the chest with a knife).

getting to a woman's heart (or anyone's) should come in naturally. conversation should be smooth and come in naturally too. there may be too many things to remember, so what you can do is to practice on others.
I agree with you. What you want to say is that it should be a natural skill. But it is not, we grew up the afc way, and practicing what we learn here IT WILL BECOME NATURAL skills. You wont have to REMEMBER, it will come naturally.
 

thecraftylefty

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Damn, this was written in 2000 and still holds true today. Gotta give credit where it's due and ATNA surely deserves it with this one.


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thecraftylefty said:
Damn, this was written in 2000 and still holds true today. Gotta give credit where it's due and ATNA surely deserves it with this one.


thecraftylefty

Yep this helps a lot.
 

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felle said:
10. if you got yourself a 9 or a 10, hit her (not physically) with a negative remark like: you got a big belly, what's wrong with you hair, how long have you had them shoes. if she start's to break down, confort her & tell her you was just kiddin.

The power of TEASING is very POWERFUL but DANGEREOUS thing! Do it with the exact portions and you will be able to create very PLEASANT situations, for YOU as for THE GIRL. To me, the best situation is when she teases you back now and than. This will keep it for her as for you pleasant and exciting!

But two things are so important :

1. Only do it when you're so sure the situation is totally ready for it! If you don't know the girl very well or she's a bit shy or something like that, than don't do it. If she is one who's really emotionaly or romantic, don't do it. Do it with girls where you REALLY have FUN with. The best place in my eyes is in a kind'of discoteque or bar.

2. Be sure to know with what your playing! What I've found out, it's sometimes hard to know when when you're going to far or not. When she's getting really quiet, nervous or suddenly she isn't that excited anymore, know these are signs you'll have gone to far. Watch out with your remarks. Like told above on nr 10. be sure to confort her enough and let her know you're just kidding!
this is true. very true. too true.. learn your audience carefully or you'll just look like a douche at the end of the night.
 

sux2bu

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2. Talk about FEELINGS. "how was your weekend?, what did you do? did you have fun? i like the way your hair is?" - anything that you think she would like to talk about.

*facepalm*
 
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