Fruitbat
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 3, 2013
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Well, I’m about to feck my wife for the 2nd time today.You’re the one who made the decision to seek advice on a public forum, which for the record was not about your schizophrenic ex, but about your current girlfriend that you want to ‘fix’. People have taken time out of their day to give you what they feel is honest advice. You don’t like the advice you’re being given, so you turn around and attack the messengers.
You do this because you’re thin skinned, and can’t handle being told advice that doesn’t square up with what you want to hear. In fact, all of your responses throughout this entire thread are defensive critiques of the red pill solutions being offered to you. The people challenging you, myself included, want to help you, not get ‘digs’ or ‘belittle’ you to use some of the millennial, feminized language that Aj84 a.k.a ‘Dudley do-right’ mentioned earlier.
If you choose to post painful, personal details about yourself on a public forum, you need to accept that what people say in response may not always be what you want to hear. If you can’t handle the responses (which you clearly can’t), don’t post painful, personal details about yourself. Look at some of my older posts, specifically the one where I seek advice on helping my LTR cope with depression. Many of the responses were ‘dump her now...’ I didn't challenge those responses. I engaged in thoughtful discussion, took the advice that seemed plausible, and ignored the responses that were knee jerk. I am going on 4 plus years with the same woman, and the advice I received on this forum is a big reason why my LTR is healthy.
I’ve noticed that this forum has become highly femanized since I first starting hanging around here. Lot’s of words like ‘belittle’ and ‘you hurt my feelings...’, guys telling other guys that responses are ‘hurtful’, etc.
another men’s group taken down from within...adios amigos. Have fun at your tea party, and watch out for the book clubs.
Good luck with all your PUA theories.