She's the only girl that I've received oral from. Apparently she gave a bj to her previous boyfriend, and her previous boyfriend was able to climax every time. However, I'm not.
Since she's quite annoyed by this since she believes that she does a very good job of giving oral (It feels nice for me, but i can't judge since she's the only one i got a bj from).
So basically her solution is for me to abstain from all sexual pleasures (that includes masturbation as well) for a month. She claims that after a month of abstaining, i will ejaculate with the force of a thousand suns with simply a touch. After all, I should be dying to get some pleasure.
I'm not sure if this is a practical solution. I can easily go a week, but a month without relieving myself is kind of stretching it. I feel as if after a week i'll be in an annoyed mood for the rest of the month. I'm already in an annoyed mood just thinking about it.
What are your opinions? How else can she get me to climax during oral?
She's the only girl that I've received oral from. Apparently she gave a ******* to her previous boyfriend, and her previous boyfriend was able to *** every time. However, I'm not.
Since she's quite annoyed by this since she believes that she does a very good job of giving oral (It feels nice for me, but i can't judge since she's the only one i got a ******* from).
So basically her solution is for me to abstain from all sexual pleasures (that includes masturbation as well) for a month. She claims that after a month of abstaining, i will ejaculate with the force of a thousand suns with simply a touch. After all, I should be dying to get some pleasure.
I'm not sure if this is a practical solution. I can easily go a week, but a month without relieving myself is kind of stretching it. I feel as if after a week i'll be in a ****ty mood for the rest of the month. I'm already in a ****ty mood just thinking about it.
What are your opinions? How else can she get me to climax during oral?
Maybe she's just not that good. What are her hands doing while she's blowing you? For me, if she's too rough or too light or lacks rhythm, it has a huge effect on ejaculation.
Hate to say it, but in situations like these... fake it til you make it. Unless you have issues jacking off on your own, then you're probably just nervous with your girl.
I don't like that she is blaming you for this issue (albeit indirectly). Possible red flag for not so fun times ahead. Her putting pressure on you isn't going to make things come out easier
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Women complain when men prematurely ejaculate, you are on the opposite end of the spectrum and there is still an issue (at least regarding blow jobs) so it is up to her to prove herself. So lie back and relax (maybe that is part of the problem?).
So basically her solution is for me to abstain from all sexual pleasures (that includes masturbation as well) for a month. She claims that after a month of abstaining, i will ejaculate with the force of a thousand suns with simply a touch. After all, I should be dying to get some pleasure.
So she's implying that going for a month without sexual contact with you wouldn't bother her? Remind her that every guy has different pleasure zones the same way every woman does. Tell her that you don't assume she likes it the same way as an ex and want to learn what makes her go crazy, not wait a month so the tension can take over. If she doesn't take that conversation as a clue to ask and do it the way you want I would move on. If you don't want to be as direct you can easily get her to do it differently with your reactions during the act. If she does something that's close to feeling great/better, overreact and ask her to "do _____ again, that felt great!" It makes her think she's doing it right on her own, even though you're tweaking her technique to your taste.
I had this problem once when I was 16. After some more experience I realized she was simply bad. There was one specific time she started coming up with some crazy solutions (like me jerking myself while she licked the tip....yeah, what a ******* that would be!) so I got frustrated and offered a solution of my own: "Maybe we should try with you and Kim (her best friend) sucking it at the same time".
Some men like certain stimulations more than others. She might do a very good job, but your penis just ain't "wired" to react with an orgasm. Nothing wrong with that. She's gonna have to "swallow" her pride instead of yours.
get XBMC on an HTPC hooked up to a nice big LCD... favourite a few amazing ******* porn scenes ... turn on the TV and show her next time how to do it right
usually guys that say they never ejaculate are uncircumcised , and do sexual acts with out pulling there foreskin back if this is the case wiht you then pull us **** skin back , if not she is bad lol
Not releasing for a few days is enough to get u ready to blow so a month is crazy. Sex is a mind game and blowing a load is just a matter of getting turned on enough to do it. If u want to make it easier for her to get u off then use your spank bank and picture the hottest scene u can think of or picture her making out with a chick and u will be ready to explode.
