Clearly, you're unenlightened on the matter.You're putting the cart before the horse. You simply are, and you will attract who is compatible with you. If you don't like who you attract then step your own game up. Trying to pin down one particular girl is a fools errand because it will never turn out the way you think it will. That is the epitome of neediness and lack.
You can be the ripest juiciest peach in the world and there will still be someone that hates peaches.
Offering to show appreciation? Praise is the goal of weak minds, and the spur of noble ones.