Busting your load in a girl on the first date

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Funny tho, the girls that ask me to wear a condom on a one night stand are the ones that my gut was telling me I should. The ones that didn’t, were the ones I felt comfortable raw dogging anyway.
What were some of the red flags for you?
 

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What were some of the red flags for you?
If she offers you one out of her purse. She doesn’t give you a chance to undress her first. She takes her own pants and panties off at the same time the second her back touches the bed…
 

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I banged a good 90% of my sexual partners with no condom, actually filled them up like a thanksgiving turkey, didnt get any disease nor made any pregnat (that I know at least).

One thing for sure is that apparently they are not that concerned (in my experience) wheter they are students, professionals or bar girls.

What doesnt make sense instead is that they accept to have sex with no protection but then complain when you fill them up...as if there was some other way to finish.

Sometimes I told them that I was gonna take it out not to make them pregnant and they nodded then we both forget caught in the act.

I always felt the need to fill the good looking one either to mark the territory or for the subconscius desire of having good looking sons out of them.
I think that a fair number of women have realized on some level of consciousness that the current level of pickiness they have is putting them on the path of being childless, and that a random hookup can be explained away as an "accident" - and if the man appears to be decent professional, so much the better for child support. Nowadays, I consider myself into this category, and will pretty much only have escortless sex as bareback - it will at the very least solve my reproductive problem.
 

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If she offers you one out of her purse. She doesn’t give you a chance to undress her first. She takes her own pants and panties off at the same time the second her back touches the bed…
Wow, I have always had to at least ask her if wants to shower. :rolleyes: (I think I attach sex with the shower because of all my EscortMaxxing.)
 

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If you can get first date sex, it's totally fine to ejaculate inside her vagina on the first date. Do it inside of a condom though.

First date sex has some other issues though. The biggest issues around first date sex is that it often occurs late at night (not physical peak of alertness for people who aren't night owls) and often under the influence of alcohol. Those can affect the quality of sex, especially when combined with the nerves of a new partner and unfamiliarity.
 

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I have a vasectomy so this is the only way I roll. If you are concerned about std you have to wrap it up.
 

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Never trust when a woman tells you she is on birth control or you may learn a very expensive and 18+ year long lesson.

You literally know next to nothing about this woman, why would you believe anything she told you yet?
 

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Never trust when a woman tells you she is on birth control or you may learn a very expensive and 18+ year long lesson.

You literally know next to nothing about this woman, why would you believe anything she told you yet?
Iron Rule of Tomassi #5

NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 applies in extended, committed relationships but is even more important with first date sex.

I have a vasectomy so this is the only way I roll. If you are concerned about std you have to wrap it up.
What's the point in getting a vasectomy when you'll still need condoms for STD protection when spinning plates?
 
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #5

NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 applies in extended, committed relationships but is even more important with first date sex.



What's the point in getting a vasectomy when you'll still need condoms for STD protection when spinning plates?
That’s small potatoes relative to having another kid. You have small risk of getting an untreatable STD. ‘If you see something, say something.’

And that’s laughable that Tomassi coined that as a rule
 

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That’s small potatoes relative to having another kid. You have small risk of getting an untreatable STD. ‘If you see something, say something.’

And that’s laughable that Tomassi coined that as a rule
If I need to keep using a condom, then I don't see a point in going through the procedure. That's why I haven't had a vasectomy.

Why is it laughable that Tomassi coined that as a rule? I think it's an important rule. When I consider my lifetime history, it's the Iron Rule that I've implemented best in my life. I think the Iron of Rules of Tomassi are so awesome.

Finishing inside the woman wearing a condom is still very pleasurable.
 

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If I need to keep using a condom, then I don't see a point in going through the procedure. That's why I haven't had a vasectomy.

Why is it laughable that Tomassi coined that as a rule? I think it's an important rule. When I consider my lifetime history, it's the Iron Rule that I've implemented best in my life. I think the Iron of Rules of Tomassi are so awesome.

Finishing inside the woman wearing a condom is still very pleasurable.
I got the procedure because I don’t want kids now. It’s reversible.

and yeah... nominate him for the Nobel prize for coining a rule based on common sense.
 

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I have taken my chances in the past and gotten away with it.

It is also true that it's easy to treat this as not a big deal........until it is and you wish you had been more careful. I think you can afford to be a little more free in your business with a woman you have been seeing for a bit. A first date lay where you bust in the girl? I think that is asking for trouble more-so from the STD perspective than pregnancy.
 

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In my experience, most women crave it. Remember, semen is a big part of your masculinity. There is a masculine mystique and energy in your semen, women are wired both spiritually and physically to crave that energy from you.

My two cents.
They love it. Find me a girl that doesn’t want a nut busted in them. It makes them feel sexy, powerful, submissive, etc
 

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People who use the withdrawal method are often called parents
Guess Im either really lucky or have fertility issues.
 

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If you can get first date sex, it's totally fine to ejaculate inside her vagina on the first date. Do it inside of a condom though.

First date sex has some other issues though. The biggest issues around first date sex is that it often occurs late at night (not physical peak of alertness for people who aren't night owls) and often under the influence of alcohol. Those can affect the quality of sex, especially when combined with the nerves of a new partner and unfamiliarity.
ONS cumming inside is the exception. There's a wild risky aspect to it. But it's safer to do these days to the right girls cause a lot have BC. And if they don't, there's so many ways to stop conception that I feel safer than before. It kinda ruins the fun but hey not all of us live as daredevils.
 
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