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Master Don Juan
Dec 12, 2007
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Rollo Tomassi said:
I should also add that it's this very facility that makes women hate it (when they do). Porn gives a guy his reward for free; a reward that should be her single best agency is rendered valueless when a man can get off to an infinite variety of sexual experience at the click of a mouse. It's unlimited access to unlimited sexual availability.
Hmm, interesting. I can see how if you are seeing somebody, using "I love porn and will continue to enjoy it even if we are together" tactic can get you an upper hand in the relationship.

But I thought women hated their men watching porn because it was another form of cheating? I guess that's what you're trying to get at there.

Rollo Tomassi

Master Don Juan
Oct 4, 2004
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BAT, the idea that a man viewing / using porn is equitable to infidelity is a feminine operative convention - namely shame. Women masturbating is liberating or empowering, if not downright sexy. A man masturbating is failure, perversion and vile. Why do you suppose that is? What would be the latent function or purpose of this social convention? It reinforces women's sexuality as being a prize to be sure, but if men can (and regularly do) achieve that same prize (or can simulate it well enough) her sexuality as a commodity becomes devalued. Therefore male self-pleasuring deprives her of her first best agency with men.

Thats from the feminine side of the equation. The Buffer for men is that by chronically masturbating and rewarding himself solo, he loses the motivation to learn the social skills necessary to interact successfully with women.


Master Don Juan
Apr 30, 2006
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Latinoman said:
There is no way I could out DJ a man in his 40s or 50s for the attention of a woman in her 40s. Heck, it is very difficult to out DJ a man in his 40s for a woman in her mid 30s. Although, I can out DJ them (men in 40s+ and 20s) for women in their upper 20s and 30s. It is what it is.
Tell you what, you don't have to worry about a 45 y.o. man like me competing against you for the mid 30's women. I'll go for the young 20's. :yes:


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