Breakups Hit Men Harder Than Women

[IamtheAlphamale]

You're a brave man, Clark, for even talking to a chick at work about anything social.

Factory job. People are chill there. Can say whatever

 

[Hal9000]

Its easier to move on from a relationship when you've got 50 dudes dying to take you out. This is vastly different from the reality of most men who have to start all over at ground zero working their way back up the dating pool ladder which can take weeks, months or forever.

You really think these rich and famous dudes spend long crying in their beer after a breakup when they have good looking women lined up to go out with them? Of course not, and that's the reality of just about any female.

 

[Baibars]

There is another reason that crossed my mind today. Men overvalue relationship history and all the things we went through together. Women only act and behave a certain way because they feel like it in the moment.
She doesn’t care that you’ve been with her for a long time and „built“ something.
I was receiving love letters and massages but after all these times I suddenly become unimportant.
It all didn’t mean anything it was just her and her stupid everchanging emotions.
All these goodies didn’t mean much for me at that moment but because it built up overtime I developed some sort of loyalty idk how to describe it really. Like she was my family

 

[Bigpapa]

There is another reason that crossed my mind today. Men overvalue relationship history and all the things we went through together. Women only act and behave a certain way because they feel like it in the moment.
She doesn’t care that you’ve been with her for a long time and „built“ something.
I was receiving love letters and massages but after all these times I suddenly become unimportant.
It all didn’t mean anything it was just her and her stupid everchanging emotions.
All these goodies didn’t mean much for me at that moment but because it built up overtime I developed some sort of loyalty idk how to describe it really. Like she was my family

Was yesterday at one of my best friends birthday and there were some colleagues from work in their 40s

They got drunk a bit and telling me about their youth and the guy they were dating back then and bla bla

They do stuff because they like it and still remember after lots of years, just that they are more realistic than the guys and also the numbers are on their side

A matter of options mainly. Girls are bratty these days because the options they think they have

 

[SW15]

Its easier to move on from a relationship when you've got 50 dudes dying to take you out.

This is the reality for most women from their teen years through the end of their 30s. Even women 40+ have more options than most men would think they would have.

This is vastly different from the reality of most men who have to start all over at ground zero working their way back up the dating pool ladder which can take weeks, months or forever.

You have accurately explained the grind for most men in dating, unless you are a top tier man. Those top tier men are sometimes called 'Chads'.

You really think these rich and famous dudes spend long crying in their beer after a breakup when they have good looking women lined up to go out with them? Of course not, and that's the reality of just about any female.

There have been Tinder/Bumble experiments that show that overweight and old women get more Likes than even men that would be considered elite level.

Elite level men have similar dating experiences to average or even below average women.

Men overvalue relationship history and all the things we went through together. Women only act and behave a certain way because they feel like it in the moment.

It can get annoying to deal with a woman who might say and do something in one moment and it changes to the next moment.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

Women survive getting dumped much better than men do, in general. They cry it out, blab to their friends about it ad nauseum, get more male attention on social media and move on. We guys tend to internalize it and it's a slow burn-off. I resorted to a lot of weed and liquor in the past to curb some of the sad voices but that’s the old me before I died and came back.
So the moral of the story is whatever you do, don't get dumped. Be aware at all times and if your gut senses her losing interest, be proactive and take ownership of the dynamic.