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Better Posture Tips

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As posture had a lot to do with portraying confidence i thought this would be a good article to share and act as a refresher to ;

Help you look and feel better.

But how does one implement better posture into their everyday life? What exercises exist that can help with better posture? Use the following eight tips to improve your posture:


Becoming Aware

The best way to get better posture is to become aware of the posture that you have now. Do you tend to slouch while writing? Lean forward while at the computer? Find a cue that happens often, such as a phone ringing or a door closing, and check your posture when it occurs. Then correct yourself. This method is very effective in bringing awareness of the posture throughout daily life.


Tone Muscles

Exercise and muscle tone actually enhance posture. Often, slouching occurs due to weak muscles. Stronger muscles prevent this.


Position your Head

Once you have begun exercising and reminding yourself of your daily posture, start noticing the position of your head. Many people walk with heads jutted forward. This causes undue strain on the neck muscles. Instead of letting the head jut forward, make sure that it is placed squarely atop your neck. You may feel taller after this exercise, but once used to it, your overall appearance will benefit.


Position your Shoulders

The shoulders often slouch backwards, giving the body a concave look. For better posture, make sure that your shoulders are upright and that your back is arched in toward the front. This will make you look taller and more confident.


Notice your Knees

Many people walk stiffly, due to the fact that their knees are not properly supporting their body. Take a minute to notice your knees, and how they relate to the rest of your leg. Are they stiff as you walk? What happens when you sit down? Ideally, your knees should support you and your legs while you stand, sit and walk.


Relax your Arms

While trying to implement all of these postural improvement, don't lock your arms. There is a tendency to lock the arms when concentrating on another part of the body. Leave arms relaxed and loose at sides while walking, and even let them dangle and move, if you'd like.


Remain Active

Poor posture is often the result of sitting, standing or walking excessively all day. To maintain better posture, try and have a healthy amount of standing, walking, sitting and lying down in each day. This will allow your body to move in more ways then when it is confined to a few positions.


Relax

The most important thing to remember is: relax! By saying this we do not mean slouching. The body can remain relaxed while moving and standing in a healthy way. Try to relax even while under important deadlines and meeting, and notice how much better you feel during pressured moments. Careful integration of this last tip into your daily life will make all of the other tips seem easier. Good luck!

Thanks to http://ar.essortment.com/betterposture_rkkl.htm
Written by genevieve thiers

And if your after some public speaking tips ;
http://www.powerpointers.com/printarticle.asp?articleid=17
 

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I have a book on posture, and in the front is a section called: 1 Minute to Better Posture.

Here's how it says to stretch and align your back an body, so you stand straight, and your shoulders hang directly above your hips.

1. Stand with your back against the wall, feet shoulder width apart.
2. Push your shoulders up and back.
3. Suck in your stomach like you're trying to be skinny.
4. Push your chest up and out.
5. Lift your head straight up like it's being pulled by a string.

Stand there for 10 seconds, then step forward. You should be able to hold that posture.

It's not perfect, but it's easy, and you can do it anytime you just need to stand a little taller, or walk into a situation with confidence.
 
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