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best way to comeback at her telling me im spoiled?

baurman

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my girlfriend keeps telling me that im spoiled and i have high expectations. what is a good comeback to this? ive been dating her for like 2 months.
 

COD

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yes i am..........i deserve the best, I agree I am spoiled, you are just now figuring this out


ANY ONE OF THOSE WORKS

your goal is verbal akido.........dont resist her comments by confrontation.....channel them around you, deflection works wonders.

OLD advice my gammy gave me.........she said, sonny people can make fun of you if you U engage them....so keep your trap shut. Your response will dictate her ACTIONS, MOOD, DECISION.
 

slickaz

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yeh im spoiled..and thats why im datin u..coz i get the best in everythin..so what??

or

quite acting like you're gonna pass this up..you fell for me coz im spoilt and i get the best of everythin...ur just jealous! lol

or

NO! if i was spoilt you'd be in bed with me now instead of yellin at me..
 

harkkam08

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hmm

At 2 months this might be more of a character judgment rather than a sh*t test. I dont think shes trying to see if you can attack her back or not but rather how you define yourself.

Sometimes people say "Your a mean person" or "Your a liar" and you have to defend yourself. By giving a ****y funny response, in my opinion will actually make her lose respect for you because she will think that you are failing to grasp the gravity of her acusation.

Instead respond with something more meaningful but equally as powerful.

Perhaps "Any man that does not have high expectations does not expect to go very far and how is that respectable?....Some people expect the worst, I expect to be the very best"

Thats just my two cents. I feel like if you hit her in the head with this, she will see you in a new light. And say it if you mean it, girls can tell when your not being genuine.
 

daygameguy

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"Whatever, Whatever, I'll do wha I want!" - lol jus kidding.


Say something meaningful. Don't be too ****y funny now. turn it off.
 

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edu11

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My spider-sense is going crazy here. Her thinking that you are spoiled is the conclusion of her thoughts. You have to find out the things that she's not telling you. I think she's unable to meet certain expectations and that is creating insecurity. Instead of seeing that as her fault, she sees it as yours.
 
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