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1. Saying your Wrong versus saying Sorry. Saying your Wrong has a different connotation. Use that, sometimes. Maybe not necessarily now, as we don't know how it started.
2. Make sure its over. 90% of all relationships FAIL because 1 party must win and 1 party must lose. When that happens, you undermine the integrity, respect, and character of each other, leaving 1 feeling like a 'loser' and embittered. When it's over, it's over.
3. Act, don't say. Do something fun. If she's still acting up, leave her be. When a woman is pissed, she'll need space, but want to be shown love and understanding, that requires action. Most times, women bytching is simply saying "I don't feel loved," and b/c they constantly need to be shown love once they're in love, you need to show it.
-give her a hug, or a warm kiss sensually.
-take her to a new restaurant, or your favorite place.
4. Unless it's worth standing your ground on to the dying end, don't be an obstinate azshole. A case as an example...
1 of my very good friends is 39, to me being 24. He wanted to go visit a female friend of mine at her college about an hour away. He was trying to get me to date her more because as he put it "you're being a pvssy toward her, she likes you and she's perfect for you, but you don't even bother. not to mention she's hot and you're stuck on these young flakes."
I called her and told her we were going so I could buy her a drink on her bday and that my pal was coming. Sure enough, she kinda flipped b/c he's 39 and her friends are all like 21, 22, etc. Big deal right? Well we argued for 30 minutes on her birthday. In the end, I backed out and told her out of principle in defense of my friend I wouldn't go, even if I didn't have to work the next, I STILL wouldn't go, because I think her behavior was inappropriate and my friend was doing me a favor.
Time went buy, I said I was wrong for some of my more choice words, but never for defending him. She inevitable admitted it was wrong what she said and that it was a stressful night.
To make arguments effective, pick your battles. If you're always saying sorry, she won't believe you anymore and she'll see the relationship as lacking any real love.
A-Unit
